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  • 16-08-2009 1:13am
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    Annbo33
    Registered Users Posts: 21 ✭


    HI
    I was just looking for some opinions please and if i come across as a stalker ireally am not i just would prefre to know.

    The story so far is i met a guy about 8 weeks ago we spoke for about 2 weeks and then went out on a date where we got on great he rang the next night and wanted to meet up but i had arrangements so couldnt we met up for lunch a few days later and went out to dinner the following nite we got on great on both occasions he then was going away for 3 weeks holidays this was 2 weeks ago and for the first 10days i heard from him everyday either text or call but he Child (his ex brought the child to him )went to join him 4 days ago and i have only heard from him once.

    So my question is have i a right to be P***** o** for the lack of contact or should i just brush it off? I dont want to be a stalker and keep texting him but i hate the waiting game.:confused:


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    Agent J
    Registered Users Posts: 1,909 ✭✭✭Agent J


    His kid comes first.
    I'd expect nothing less to be honest.

    Brush it off and contact him when he gets back.


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    Overheal
    Registered Users Posts: 81,832 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    Even in most established post-divorce/split relationships, the kids come first.

    Try and relax, enjoy some You-Time. Space is healthy in a relationship anyway. When else can trust and longing be established?


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    Annbo33
    Registered Users Posts: 21 ✭Annbo33


    Thanks for your replies
    My concern was more that his Ex was there. I am not the insecure type but he is and he has spent the first 10days telling me he would ring everyday which i said there was no need and when he stopped just as they arrived my mind went into overdrive. I have just relaxed and will see what happens when he comes back.I know most people love the beginning of a new relationship but i dont, i dont like feeling unsure, and this is my problem not his so heres to the furture and whatever it holds ;)


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