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GF and old mate of mine

  • 15-08-2009 12:15AM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi, ive recently found out that an old mate of mine, who I no longer speak to for the reason that he is a complete prick, has said quite a nasty comment about me and my GF, mainly focusing on her.

    Now she knows nothing of it and I would hate to tell her and hurt her feelings, but I aswell feel she has the right to know. We're pretty much never going to come into contact with this guy again and neither of us have any intention of seeing him again. So should I just leave it be and let ignorance be bliss or should she know?

    Many thanks.


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  • #2
    liah
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    I wouldn't bother telling her.

    People talk, they say shít they shouldn't and shít that has no bearing on reality. Anyone worth anything would know the guy's just spreading bull and if they believe him they're not worth your time anyway.

    Just ignore it, it's not worth dignifying by uttering aloud.


  • #3
    Faith
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,662 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    Why would you tell her? She doesn't need to know, and it's only going to hurt her.


  • #4
    Cyrus Mushy Bedbug
    Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Cyrus Mushy Bedbug


    Unregistered wrote: »
    Hi, ive recently found out that an old mate of mine, who I no longer speak to for the reason that he is a complete prick, has said quite a nasty comment about me and my GF, mainly focusing on her.

    Now she knows nothing of it and I would hate to tell her and hurt her feelings, but I aswell feel she has the right to know. We're pretty much never going to come into contact with this guy again and neither of us have any intention of seeing him again. So should I just leave it be and let ignorance be bliss or should she know?

    Many thanks.

    OP, if someone on this thread called your gf a whore would you run off to report this back to her? Just because some asshole is badmouthing and sh!tstirring does not mean you need to rub it in her face. Not to mention there are many girls that would think you bringing up such an irrelevant comments might mean you agree with it , as there'd be no other reason to bring it up.


  • #5
    Chinafoot
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,894 ✭✭✭Chinafoot


    He's not in your life anymore, you won't see him again and he's spouting rubbish.

    Why waste any of your time and energy on someone that means nothing to you or your girlfriend?


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