move on??

LegacyUser

im very confused as of what to do. im 21 & have been with my boyfriend for just under a year, weve been close friends for 3 years previous to our relationship and we know eachother better than anyone else, we hang out in the same very close knit circle of friends, one of whom he had an on off drunken sort of "relationship" with. she hasnt spoken to me since we got together even though we were great friends and she said she didnt like him anymore, but it was worth loosing her bcos i love him so much. recentley we had a huge fight over somthing stupid (we fight alot over small silly things), i usually start the fight, i can be very dramatic at times, but usually im the one to makeup after i cool off after a day or two. anyway in this particular argument i told him i was thru with him, and some other very mean things..the next night we were out with our friends and i took him aside to apologise and makeup which i thought he wud except, as he is well used to my hot tempered outbursts that he knows i dont mean, but to my suprize he told me to stay away from him and he wanted nothing to do with me anymore, turns out he had been told by a mutual friend that i had slept with another mutual friend, but it happend a year before me and my boyfriend ever got together! he was furious that it happend and that i never told him. when i only never told him bcos the guy is not my type and it was a very drunken mistake that me and the guy agreed would never mention it again, but unaware to me he spilled the beans months later and now all my friends and bf (well ex bf now) know bout it. he hasnt spoken to me in days and im utterly heartbroken, i text him serveral times telling him how sorry i was and how much i love him only to get back messages saying i broke his heart and he can never trust or see me the same again. i know he feels betrayed but i only never told him bcos it was somthing i wanted to forget. last time we broke up he kissed another girl in front of me after only a week of us being on a break more than a break up but he apologised, told me it was a mistake, im the only girl for him and i forgave him almost straight away and i cant understand why he cant do the same. he says its over but i know he still loves me and i know we r meant for eachother, what should i do, is this really it, should i leave him alone or is there anything i can do or say to win him back???

Kimia

What's his problem? You slept with someone before you guys were even together. He's not telling you the real reason imo. Looks like he was just looking for an excuse (sorry).

Either way, right now take him at his word and don't try and win him back. Ignore him and treat his (ridiculous) anger with the contempt it deserves. He may come crawling back, he may not. But DO NOT lower yourself to begging this fool to 'forgive' you.

You did nothing wrong.