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  • 12-08-2009 11:48pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I met a guy on a night out at christmas and I really liked him.
    The problem was he had a girlfriend and he lived an hour and a half away.
    A week later I texted him and he told me he broke up with the girlfriend.
    He asked me to visit him in college but I never did and communication kind of fizzled out after that.
    I was out last sunday night and I bumped into him again.
    It was the first time I'd seen him since christmas and he wasn't seeing anyone.
    He again invited me to visit him in college but I'm not sure.
    I asked him could he not visit me before the end of summer and he said he doubted it.
    He had to study for his repeat which is in 2 weeks.
    Unless I ask him to visit after his exam..??
    Any advice??


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  • #2
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    Yeah, ask him if he wants to go for a drink after his exams, yeah. I wouldn't be too bothered about who makes the effort to go where - whatever's easier. It doesn't really matter!


  • #3
    Booswig
    Closed Accounts Posts: 26 ✭Booswig


    Why are you unsure, or need advice. Sounds like he is available, and that you are interested in him. The only thing is the long distance thing, but, you have to try to see if you guys are compatable.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I think we're compatible definitely.
    He just didn't sound so keen for meeting but that was probably because of his exam?
    I'll text him and hopefully he'll say yes..!


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Unregistered wrote: »
    Unless I ask him to visit after his exam..??

    I txted him bout meeting up 4 a drink and he said he couldn't because he was working and he was actually taking the morning off to do the exam.
    What am I supposed to do now.??!


  • #6
    Booswig
    Closed Accounts Posts: 26 ✭Booswig


    He is probably saying that as he's got to work, and he's got to take the morning off to go write the exam. You have known of the exam for an age. Give him time to go and write it. When you are sure he is finished, text him to enquire how it went.

    I really hoped that you did text him something like "Good luck with your exam", and did not ask him the whole time to meet ?


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  • #7
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Yeah I did ask how the studying was going and sent a few texts after that before I asked him about visiting to celebrate him finishing his exam.I realise now he needs to study and focus on that before he can even think of visiting!So hopefully I'll see him soon..!


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