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Need reminding/wake-up call

  • 11-08-2009 04:02PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    This 'problem' isn't really an issue as such as I know what the solution is but I just need some reminding from you lot about it!

    A couple of weeks ago I got off with this guy, it was just a bit of a fling. Anyhow he was a great kisser and we messed around a bit and all was great. The next morning I left but not before we kissed and messed around a bit more. He wanted me to stay for a while and go back to bed but I left anyhow. I didn't think too much of it that day. That evening I met him out again, this time we were just talking, nothing happened, it was quite awkward at times, there was chemistry but he was drunk, I wasn't and nothing happened. Wasn't feeling 'it'!

    Anyhow for some reason I got a bit down about it all after meeting him again. I was grand after our one night thing but then meeting him again and not being with him made me feel crap! I didn't come on to him or anything close, I was fairly aloof and quieter and a bit shyer than i usually am.. I think it was cos I realised he was quite s&xy and sound and stuff.. Also I have had a look at his bebo site (I know, I know!) and he's quite hot in his pictures etc. Anyhow he didn't ask for my number and I know myself that it was what it was but for some reason I just can't get it out of my head.. I'm reading 'he's just not that into you' at the moment to try to wake myself up and cop on! Any advice you have for 'copping on' or any stories from someone in similar situation greatly appreciated!

    I think I'm annoyed with myself also as like I said I was completely fine that it was what it was after the night itself.. I think just meeting him again and having conversations actually deflated me a bit.. Oh and by the way we were both on weekends away with friends so it's not someone I'm likely to bump into again so I know it's a total no-go.. If he wanted to get in touch he would have asked for my number.. And he didn't so I need to draw a line and move on! So I know what I have to do, just having trouble doing it..


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