does he just want booty call??

LegacyUser

ok some advice required here please
in the past two months - met a guy, we get on really well (have a laugh n that), then we textin every day, then we met up few times, slept with him.
he not in dublin for the summer so he's had to come up to meet me the few times.
now i know he is busy for summer and that but since the last time i saw him the texts have gotten less.... we used to text every day but now we dont.
is that just the way its bound to go? like i guess we are bound to not have loads to chat bout?
now we still get on well and that but is he trying to distance himself or?
havent seen em in few weeks as we've both been busy and he says he is coming up to me this weekend
is it just that we havent seen each other in while?
i dont want to be asking him whats wrong n that kinda stuff.
i know we arent 'going out' or anything and we dont know each other that long but i just wonder if he is fed up already?!!

Firetrap

It looks to me like it's a booty call. If he was interested in you he would have made some sort of effort to stay in touch. Nobody is that busy that they can't ring or send a text.

LegacyUser

OP here
well we have stayed in touch.just havent been chattin to him as much as we had before.
like we still texting but not as much as before is all.
i think i'll see what he is like on fri with me??

shellyboo

Do see what he's like, and ask him what's happening.

I wouldn't take the dropping off in texting as a sign he's not into you, men tend to do that... they are happy to be in constanct contact while they're "chasing" you, but once they "have" you, the contact drops off to normal levels.

It's really not normal to be in touch with somene all day, every day - you'd soon get sick of them! See how it goes this weekend, and ask him where he thinks things are going between the two of you. It's a legitimate question, don't be afraid to ask it!

legend365

Maybe hes not looking for a relationship and doesn't want to come across as if he does.