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  • 08-08-2009 11:28pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hello
    How do you know if a guy is interested or not? The reason I'm asking is, obviously there is this guy and I'm not sure if he is sussing me out be he keeps on saying to me that he is not tied down because he does not have a wife or children or partner. When I meet him we get on great and we'd have a laugh and a chit chat but its only for a few minutes at a time as he works in a shop. I'm divorced and have kids. He knows that I have kids but I have never mentioned that I am divorced but lately I did mention to him that their father is not on the scene.
    He also used to ask quite frequently if I was going out. I do not go out very often as I cannot afford to and also because I would prefer to spend my money on my kids. Dont get wrong here if I was seeing him I would not expect him to pay everything for me - I would pay my own way.
    It appears to me that he is flirting with me but he does not know the full story with me. So really what I would like to know is:
    Are men attracted to women who are divorced? have kids?
    I'm not really sure, how do you know if a guy is attracted to you?
    Help please
    Thanks


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Maybe the guy is just being friendly. I know that can seem rare enough in shops at times! But I would say this guy is obviously more interested in you than in many of his other customers. Having said that, it is possible he chats to every person or female who comes in!

    Next time you're chatting together, would it be possible to casually say that you're about to have a coffee next door/down the street and that if he's on his break, he could meet you there? If something like that worked, it would all be very casual, wouldn't be a "date" date, less pressure and you could suss him and the situation out a bit better. If it doesn't look good, then, you haven't lost anything.

    Just a suggestion. I'm no expert! Best of luck, OP.


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