Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

How do I put a reignite a relationship

  • 08-08-2009 6:43am
    #1
    sickpuppy32
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 507 ✭✭✭


    How do I reignite a relationship, any suggestions, I've a child with this girl and she really seems to have no interest in me anymore. I would really like to give it another go for my own selfish reasons and for our child. We still hang out all the time together and she seems happy with the current situation but to be honest its driving me nuts! This has been goin on a while now so please noone suggest "give her time". I want her to see me as desireable and sexy again and not her "best friend" with no benefits. How do i convience her to give me a chance? Not really expecting any great suggestions , just needed to get my thoughts on paper so to speak.


Comments

  • #2
    MIN2511
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,398 ✭✭✭MIN2511


    1. Weekend away
    2. Ask someone to look after the kid, special night in... Dinner, massage, some sexy lingerie
    3. Tell her how you feel


  • #3
    SarahMc
    Closed Accounts Posts: 517 ✭✭✭SarahMc


    I read the OP's post differently, that him and the mother of his child were no longer romantically/sexually involved, but were good friends, and he wanted more.

    Can you clarify OP?


  • #4
    sickpuppy32
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 507 ✭✭✭sickpuppy32


    yeah u got it in one :(
    any advice to get her to see me anything other than a friend?


  • #5
    Moomoo1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,960 ✭✭✭Moomoo1


    difficult. Presumably, she left you because she had no feelings for you anymore, and now you just meet 'as friends' and to take care of the child?

    I guess the only thing you can do is 'be upfront' about it and ask it if she wanted to give it another try. And try to imagine that she is a totally new person you are trying to attract.


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    maybe work out a little, loose some weight, make youself more sexy again.

    She needs to see what initial attracted her to you.

    and if all else fails do some ridiculously over the top gesture like go back in time and take her dress up to take her to her prom because chuck bailed :)


  • Advertisement
  • #7
    sickpuppy32
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 507 ✭✭✭sickpuppy32


    i've lost 2 stone in a month - amazin how a broken heart can be great for the figure! Might ask her that, what initially attracted her to me all those years ago. At the very least it might just get her head thinking if u catch my drift


Advertisement