Ex's supposed best friend

LegacyUser

I split from my ex about two months ago and we never contacted each other until the week-end when something happened with me and I text him. He replied straight away and we kept texting each other for over 2hours ending at 4:30am. Things are good with us now and we are over the awkwardness, well we were until lastnight ...

I was out with some mates and met his supposedly best-friend lastnight and he started asking me about the dates I have been on since the split & wanting to know who they were; and even started slagging off my ex while we stood at the bar.

We had each others' number from when I was with my ex, we would all arrange to meet after work for drinks ... but lastnight he kept asking me back to his place, saying my ex had gone home for two days so he wouldn't be at the house. I should say they live together and work together for the past 2years! I didn't and later got a taxi home with a friend. he then proceeded to ring me which I answered once but when I woke this morning I had 13missed calls from him.

Today then he started texting me asking me to call up to him at the house at 12:30 this afternoon. He started drinking with his mates shortly after that as they're off work and he has already phoned me twice tonight. I know he is twisted drunk so I really don't want to answer the phone. I really like to be friends with my ex & don't want to break their friendship(if you can call it that).

What's annoying me mostly is that I know my ex really looks up to this guy and does see him as a great friend. Do I say anything to my ex? If this friend tells him crap I know my ex will never speak to me again and I do want his friendship.

I'm in between a rock and a hard-place here, any advice please.

Moomoo1

just tell the best friend you will not sleep with him under any circumstances. If he then tells stuff about you to the ex, tell your ex about the whole story.