Contact my GF's Friend?

LegacyUser

Hi Guys

Was out at the weekend with my GF and her mates. I was talking to one of her mates at one stage and we got talking about relationships etc and about her and his OH. She made a comment about my GF having a FB before we got together. I knew this already, and to be honest had a feeling that she was still seeing him when we got together.

I asked her mate this (don't ask me why) and for the life of me I can't remember exactly what she said as a response, I can half remember but not 100% and don't want to say anything to my GF without being totally concrete with the info.

My question is should I text/ring my GF's mate and ask her, or should I just leave it. It is really wrecking my head at the moment because I can't remember, but then again do I really want to know?

I should also mention that I don't think my GF's mate would tell her I contacted her because I know stuff about my GF's mate that she wouldn't want anyone else to find out about.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated

Terodil

Err. Why are you talking with that 'friend' to start with and not with your gf? Do you really think that you should discuss your gf's (sexual) life with her friends?

Unregistered wrote: »

I should also mention that I don't think my GF's mate would tell her I contacted her because I know stuff about my GF's mate that she wouldn't want anyone else to find out about.

Now this is really creepy.

I'm sorry to say this OP but you have a lot of growing up to do:
* learn about communication
* learn about trust
* learn about mutual respect

Currently you're failing on all three counts.

Sinall

Honestly, I think it would be a very bad idea to further involve your GF's mate in this. Take it up with your GF, just ask her if you really have to know.

Is it that you have a problem with the fact that your GF had a FB before you got together, or that you think she was still seeing him when she started seeing you?

Jako8

What's an FB?

Anyways to the point. Look OP I don't think you should contact your GF's mate to find out. You should go directly to your GF, I'm sure if she'll be honest with you.

Also this;

I should also mention that I don't think my GF's mate would tell her I contacted her because I know stuff about my GF's mate that she wouldn't want anyone else to find out about.

is just plain wrong.

Sinall

Jako8 wrote: »

What's an FB?

A Fcuk Buddy

LegacyUser

I wasn't talking to the "Friend" about my girlfriends sex life, we were talking about the girl always doing the dirt on her BF and I asked her why she does it, cause her BF is a lovely fella. She then mentioned that she was seeing the friend of my girlfriends FB when they were together and then she said something about her still being with him when me and her got together.

That is all I want to know but don't wanna just come out and ask my GF cause even if she was she'll prob just say no anyway. So I wanted to find out for sure from her friend.

dlofnep

What's a FB?

shellyboo

dlofnep wrote: »

What's a FB?

Sinall wrote: »

A Fcuk Buddy

She just said it...

LegacyUser

OP if she said something bad you would have remembered

pickarooney

Ahh... a **** buddy. That's hardly worth worrying about. For a minute I thought you meant she had a Facebook account.

You really don't want to start that sneaky stuff. If you distrust her like that it's best to tell her and maybe end it.