I just can't figure her out!

LegacyUser

Very long story short, Met a great girl got on great for acouple of months, then got the i JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS LINE.
Fair enough it hurt but whatever....kept in contact but this gradually dwindled, her more then me (I still thought there was a chance as whhenver we were out together we would invariably end up kissing etc. and her telling me she did like me but wanted to be alone at the moment)
So for last month or so contact has been minimum, sent her a couple of texts "wanna meet up" etc no reply...
Then get a random text at half three in the morn tellng me to wake up to myself and not text her again, id nderstand if this was after id texted her but there had been no contact for 3 weeks bar bumping into eachother on the street and all seemed fine then...
I rang her next day, said that she was really drunk didn't mean to send it to me and to forget it.
I took her at her word over last couple of weeks ive tried to make contact and got noo reply so basically i gave up (too late but i did really like her)
Then yesterday i get a text from her out a the blue saying soory for not replying before...been really busy phone was broke etc....i mean c'mon!!
Wasn't gonna reply, salvage a bit of pride but i cracked and did asked how she ws, did she have a good weekend...
Guess what again not reply...
What is she playing at, if she doesn't want contact why contact me, if she does wy not reply....ahhhhhhhhh!!

Terodil

She's a headwrecker, stay clear.

Wibbs

Yep, she gets the ego boost and a little side order of emotional stimulation/drama in her life. IE Headwrecker. Scrape her off. Be very clear about it too, don't explain, just tell her you would prefer not to hear from her. She'll pop up on radar again down the line, but this time completely ignore her.

Pyr0

Welcome to Head Melt, population. Her.

Forget about her man, I wouldn't waste my time with her.

LegacyUser

OP here, yeah i can see why ye are saying this but i dunno i just felt there really was a connection there, and i feel that more then seeking an ego boost she maybe just doesn't wanna hurt me by not replying at all.
I don't know what to think, What would ye think about just emailing her, telling her how i feel about her and telling her it hurts me to not get replied to like this so id prefer nothing!!!

Wibbs

In my humble? If there was a connection there, then you wouldn't be here.

If she does feel a connection and is still acting all "confused" then that's even worse of a headwreck, because I guarantee if you ended up with her you would be going from one headwreck scenario to another.

Personally I wouldn't bother with the email explanation. I defo wouldn't go on about being hurt by her, but maybe that's just me. Her actions speak louder to me and so should yours.