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Falling for someone younger

  • 04-08-2009 7:12pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I feel silly writing this but anyway here i go. I am a mid 30s woman with no kids and a new guy started in work a few months ago and he is 19 and I have been working closely with him and we get on great. The other night we were working late and we were flirting and we kissed which i was not expecting. We have gone out on a few dates. Part of me feels i should stop but i am enjoying it. What should i do. I am afraid of what would happen if people found out.


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  • #2
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Why are you afraid?
    You are having fun an dating another adult, nothing wrong with that what so ever.


  • #3
    djcervi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 357 ✭✭djcervi


    Ye are both adults, capable of making your own decisions so why not? The only people who can rightly judge and who should care about your relationship is you and your guy.


  • #4
    AckwelFoley
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,555 ✭✭✭✭AckwelFoley


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    Why are you afraid?
    You are having fun an dating another adult, nothing wrong with that what so ever.

    I fully agree.. however..

    Hes a guy in his late teens. Hes outlook on life is much different. Hes excited by this as much as the OP is, however if this relationship develops further that when it gets complicated. Its not akin to a 55 year old woman with a 40 year old man. Men are very immature at 19, emotionally and if the OP wants to develop this into a relationship and perhaps one day settle down, the young man may not be near ready for that.


    That caveat aside, yes, go for it, enjoy yourself. Apparently demi moore is ;)


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