I love her so much

LegacyUser

heres the story, 2 weeks ago i was walking home from the bus when a 1 euro coin fell out of my pocket and rolled in front of a spanish girl walking in front of me, she smiled and handed the coin back to me, anyway because it was just the two of us walking i asked her where she was from and she said madrid, and then i cant explain it but we just clicked, as soon as i seen her i felt such a great feeling, and i think she feels the same. we swapped numbers since then we have met up loads, gone to cinema, gone to bray seafront and this might sound corny but i think im in love!!! every minute i think about her, we share so many interests like music and our personality are so suited for each other.

problem is she is returning home on Thursday what am i gonna do? should i tell her i love her? im so confused. i'll never meet a girl better than this. she is amazing.

PK2008

Dont throw the ILY straight out- its a pretty big deal. Try to build up to it.

Start with "You know I like you, right?"

If she says the same back then try

"No, I really really like you"

If she's responding then you could venture;

"I think I might be falling for you"

If she responds then i reckon your golden from there

Queencake

I agree with PK2008 in that you should tread carefully and build up sloooooooooowly.

In all honesty though, I think it would be a bad idea if you tell her you love her this soon. Keep it to "I really like you" etc. I remember a guy gave me the type of speech PK3008 suggested up to the "I'm falling for you". I loved it but I'm a romantic sort! Saying that, even I have my limits. "I love you" after 2 weeks? I'd be worried hearing that. I'd worry that he was emotional immature/naiive or was a player.

I'm not saying that I think you are either of those things by the way! You may be or you may well not be. I've fallen in love quickly too! By week three of going out with my bf I really felt I was in love. I didn't want to freak him out but by the end of the next week I couldn't hold it in any longer. He wasn't freaked out because he felt like we were at the start of something special but didn't feel ready to say "I love you" until a month later.

IMO it's best to hold it in until at least a month. You guys are just starting out and announcing love is just too dangerous right now. It could frighten her. Just get it steady.

DamagedTrax

getthegirl wrote: »

heres the story, 2 weeks ago i was walking home from the bus when a 1 euro coin fell out of my pocket and rolled in front of a spanish girl walking in front of me, she smiled and handed the coin back to me, anyway because it was just the two of us walking i asked her where she was from and she said madrid, and then i cant explain it but we just clicked, as soon as i seen her i felt such a great feeling, and i think she feels the same. we swapped numbers since then we have met up loads, gone to cinema, gone to bray seafront and this might sound corny but i think im in love!!! every minute i think about her, we share so many interests like music and our personality are so suited for each other.

problem is she is returning home on Thursday what am i gonna do? should i tell her i love her? im so confused. i'll never meet a girl better than this. she is amazing.

who knows what could happen.. but a cool story anyway

LegacyUser

thanks just a little pessimistic at the moment. i really don't want to lose her but what other choice have i got?

PK2008

Unregistered wrote: »

thanks just a little pessimistic at the moment. i really don't want to lose her but what other choice have i got?

Even if she loves you aswell she still has to go home mate.

From there the best you can do is try the long distance thing, see if it works out.

It sounds like you've had a good Summer romance (maybe your first?), hopefully it will go on longer but sometimes thes things just have to finish, it will be hard but you'll get through it and look back on it as a great memory.

AckwelFoley

Sounds lovely. When she goes back, go to the bank and get a money bag of €2 euro coins and start flinging them around the bus stops in town you might be just as lucky again!

ok, im only joking but that way you met the girl is better than you'd see in a hollywood movie!

It depends really, i suspect shes in her teens as are you, im presuming shes an exchange student over for the summer. You dont love her, you think you do, but the "real deal" love takes much longer to develop.

You've shared a great time togeather, i think its probably just that. Keep in touch, and perhaps she will return next year.

LegacyUser

ah maby your right man as they say all good things come to and end

i do think there is something there, thing is im normally not the most emotional but she'll definetly be a girl that i'll always remember tbh, you know when you're like 45 and you're married and the marriage is getting stale and then you think back to that short time during your teenage summer romance but it felt like it was forever and think what might have been.

BankMan

Unregistered wrote: »

thanks just a little pessimistic at the moment. i really don't want to lose her but what other choice have i got?

It's your life dude. You can do whatever you want with it. Don't let this episode turn into a "what if". Better to regret something you did, as opposed to something you didn't.

Go for it. Madrid's a well cool city BTW.....

Dean820

lol I'm in a similar situation myself at the moment. A barmaid who works at my local who I've fancied for months was on her night off last week. We got talking and ended up spending the night together. I REALLY like her but she only has sundays off and well its difficult to talk to her while I'm drinking and she's working. I want to tell her I like her, I say we should both just go for it. :P