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Not Sure what to do!

  • 30-07-2009 12:22am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all,I'll keep it short!

    I've known this girl for a while,we get on really well.I know she has an interest in me,and I do in her.Simple!

    Problem is,I just dont want some one nighter with her,as she is different from other women I have been with.I'am just not sure about her,ie if she wants a relationship.

    Basically I dont want to have things akward as she is a really good friend,which I find important.

    Should I go for it and see what happens or just keep it as friends?

    Cheers!


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  • #2
    ciagr297
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 428 ✭✭ciagr297


    well OP if you guys are good friends then she already knows you have no interest in one-nighters
    yet, she is still interested in you

    go for it!


  • #3
    biglittlebill
    Closed Accounts Posts: 19 ✭biglittlebill


    Personally i think you should go for it. You will always wonder "what could have been"


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    it could be that she is waiting from you to say it...-go for it!


  • #5
    ladygirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 187 ✭✭ladygirl


    go for it,, OP,, most of the time if people are out for a one nighter its generally with a stranger or someone they hardly know,, if she is showing interest in you, and as you say ye know each other well it could be the case that she is thinking along the same lines as you are,, GO FOR IT...


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Op here,

    Thanks for the replies!Iam gonna go for it,no point on dwelling on what might have been.

    Cheers all!


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  • #7
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    You should definitely give it a go, I'm sure she's waiting for you to make a move if she's being a typical traditional girl. I was in the same situation as you but with extra complications like them going out with my best friend. We were great friends for three years and then we were on a trip recently and it all came out how there's been something subtle between us. Now we're giving it a go and I'm glad we are. Sure, there's always the risk that the friendship might suffer if we break up but unless either one of you does something drastic (which I'm sure ye wouldn't 'cause it sounds like the feelings are evenly matched) then a mutual breakup wouldn't harm your friendship at all.
    Good luck man!


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