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When is it time to end?

  • 29-07-2009 10:25am
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    We’ve together 3 years now, and even though we’re very happy and love each other dearly neither of us seem to be invested in a long term relationship.
    I’m not sure either of us want to be invested in a relationship either, we’re both in our early twenties so we’re a bit young to be considering any long term plans. We are in quite different places in our lives, which can cause quite a bit of conflict and we are also very different personalities, but for some reason we work quite well together.
    I haven’t seriously been considering ending things, because I’m actually very happy with him. That being said it has gone through my mind that at some point soon I’d like to be in a relationship that perhaps some where down the line I could expect a house and kids.

    I was wondering what other people’s thoughts on the matter were. Is there any point in staying in a relationship when there doesn’t appear to be any destination for it?
    When do you know if a relationship has run its course?


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    It looks to me lik you know its already over. Why be with someone at all if after 3years u can't imagine a house and kids down the line??? Just coz neither of u have broken the other's heart or are fighting doesn't mean u shouldn break up, it just looks lik u's have come to the end of the road!

    Break up and u's could stay friends ;)


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