Head all over the place, can anyone give me guidence?

LegacyUser

Hi,

Im sure this is an issue that has been tackled many times before, so hopefully there will be somebody who can give me guidence.

I have been with my gf for just over three years now. Lately however, I have just been wanting to spend less and less time with her. Its gotten to the point where I dont like taking her phone calls, and If I see she is on line, in messenger for example, i will sign off.

And im not talking, I want to get out with my mates more or anything, If she suggests we do anything, i reluctantly say yes where as in my mind I would be thinking i'd rather do something on my own or simply do my own thing, even be it watching telly or go to the gym.

My head is melted over this. Im thinking now, where is the Joy in the relationship for me. I was thinking about it today, and possibly the only reason I am staying with her is to keep her happy as she is so much more in love with me.

Can anyone shed some light on this? Is it normal? Does it make me a bad person? Should I call it a day?

Very consfused.....

dudara

C'mon, you know the answer to this one. You need to man up now and end the relationship properly so that both of you can move on.