Why did he cancel the first date?

LegacyUser · 26-07-2009 7:29pm #1

hi,

i am just a little confused right now.this guy asked for my phone number a few weeks ago,he is cute, and modest so far i know. he has been texting for the last a few weeks,and finally i agreed to go out for a drink with him. we planed to meet in the evening, and at two pm,he texted and said that he's busy with a busi meeting and had to reschedule the date for the next day. He didnt call to apologized after. Next day, which was Saturday, I was looking forward for our first hangout. he didnt call or text me. I'm kind of disappointed. what is up with this?

shellyboo · 26-07-2009 7:52pm

Did you call or text him to rearrange? You should have. He probably thought he fecked up by having to cancel and was waiting to see if you were still interested.

Text him and see if he still wants to go out.

26-07-2009 9:44pm

Is something wrong with your phone that you couldn't call/text him back to help rearrange? Were you overcome with paralysis? Or did you think he should be doing all the running? Just text/call him and say sorry you didn't get back to him and blame it on crossed wires. Re-arrange.
:rolleyes:

LegacyUser · 26-07-2009 10:17pm

call him and ask him and your much more likely to get an answer than asking randomers on a website

Ellsbells · 26-07-2009 10:32pm

Nah, leave him. He knows where to find you. He said he would be in touch to rearrange the following day and he hasnt done that so why would you go chasing him? Bad form he didnt call to apologies. OP, I think he was blowing you off - sorry but dont compund it by calling him.

LegacyUser · 26-07-2009 11:25pm

Have you contacted him since you got the cancellation message?

Why did he cancel the first date?

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