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  • 26-07-2009 2:18am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    no one is really responding to my question so let me explain it in a different way.
    I just ended it with this guy that I was seeing for a month (we saw each other 5 times in the month). We hung out for 3 months (2 times a month) prior. We were interested in each other but I had a boyfriend at the time.

    I was under the impression that we were taking it slow, relationship may or may not happen, no commitment right away...the normal dating scene!

    I ended it because there was no affection ever, not even after sex. As much as he would make time for me, I initiated all contact. We would hang out, have sex, I would stay over, then around 2 ish the next day I would just leave because I had no idea whether I should stay or go. We did have good conversation and he was polite. I met his parents and he talked to them about me. He shared alot of personal information with me.

    I was told me wanting a bit of affection and wanting him to ask me to come visit cause he wants to see me was RUSHING some sort of relationship!


    WTF??? I had no intentions of that. Someone please shed some light on this situation.


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  • #2
    dudara
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    OP - for your own information - when you post unregistered, your post does does not display immediately. It has to be approved by a moderator, and on Saturday night, there are not many mods around.


  • #3
    Wurly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,095 ✭✭✭Wurly


    Unregistered wrote: »

    I was told me wanting a bit of affection and wanting him to ask me to come visit cause he wants to see me was RUSHING some sort of relationship!


    WTF??? I had no intentions of that. Someone please shed some light on this situation.

    Sorry but I think this was his get out clause. From what you describe, he wasn't interested anything but sex from you. I'm sorry if this is hurtful to hear or if i'm being blunt.

    You're out of it now so who cares what he thinks. F*ck him. You're well rid.


  • #4
    Sarah W
    Closed Accounts Posts: 71 ✭✭Sarah W


    He just wasn't as keen on you as you were on him. Sad but not tragic. Next time wait for the affection BEFORE having sex.


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