'Involuntary Celibacy'

ladylouise

i would like to know more about this condition 'involuntary celibacy',
do other girls suffer from it.

towel401

very, very rare with girls as far as i know. but there's always a few.

women very rarely have problems getting laid. make a profile on Plenty of Fish, set your status to 'intimate encounter' and watch the requests flooding in.

Sarah W

Normally caused by one of the following;

1. being aesthetically challenged

Cured by diet/exercise/make-up or plastic surgery (in extreme cases)

2. expecting suitors to magically appear during the commercial break of Coronation Street

Cured by getting out and meeting gentlemen prepared to bring an end to this distressing condition.

ladylouise

thats not true.it blokes who make the rules .

ladylouise

some girls try all that make up hair,nice dress and there nice girls guys still quiet rottenly.
many times over and over again year after year still get no where

ladylouise

there once the girl i knew who was bulled at school made fun of too.she was shy,quiet and sensitive too.she try to make friends and no body would be frinds with her .they were nasty and cruel names they called her,and telling her she,s no good.guys made fun of her ,played nasty tricks her too.called her names that were cruel.went to new school on first day at school a boy called her name too which stuck with through and through.she was not a pretty ,tall,skinny but nice guy who did n,t know what to do,but every time made a friend her friend would leave her all lone.for every guy she like he rejected her too every guy she found new guy she like who didn,t want any thing to do with her.at collage for this girl it was same too name calling bulling kept coming too.at her she still no boyfreind not even her first kiss yet.it wasn,t her fault the girl fitted in no where no matter how how she tred.there was no room her.lost and alone and all by her self.went through life alone with no friend to talk to and boyfreind.
rejection is all she had.now 30 years living the nightmares of school naming calling and bulling and rejection.no guy ever showed this girl once of love and affection.becasuse jerks rejection and could not accept her.
she never had her first boyfriend or her first kiss at 30 years old.
she sad every day.becasue she said she was born rejected distance to be old maid not by choice

i hope you the story of girl i knew at school.

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Skapoot

Thats a life filled with negativity..


A postive happy life doesnt magically come about by chance. Its a commitment you make to be happy every day, to cut all the losers who put you down out of your life. To make something of yourself. To turn a deaf ear to everyone who speaks negatively about you. etc

That woman you are talking about is still young and can still turn things around. Excercising is the most important. Taking care of your body. (and in terms of beauty- accepting the face you have,waxing away all the hair you dont need ) Then theres making life goals and plans. Then theres letting go of the need for a man.

If everyday for one year you spent making a conscious decision to be positive, and lean towards things that make you happy, and healthy and smart. Then surely no man would turn down a confident woman like that.

LegacyUser

Really its another name for shyness and if you are on your own it is your choice to stay that way. If you feel you are shy because of some sort of condition then go to your GP and seek professional help.

LegacyUser

When we stop fighting against ourselves and start accepting who we are things just fall into place. Give it a try. You'll see ;-)