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  • 20-07-2009 2:44pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    seeing this girl about 4 months. now shes lives in the west, i am about an hours drive away. she works shift as do i. now when i asked her out we met up and everything is good, still is when we meet up. the issue is that she has never called me, its always me doing the calling, same with texting. she never suggests meeting up, again always me. i mentioned this to her was she not interested and she said thats not the case but her actions are totally the oppisite. many times when i suggest meeting she cant for different reasons and we barely meet once a week. i really like this girl but it just feels like i am persuing someone whos not interested in me and its quite demoralising. shes not particularly shy. any advice would be really appreciated


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  • #2
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Have you told her that it would be nice if she took on the organising for a change?
    If can be pretty poxy if you end up being left with the responsibility for having to bring up the topic where/when you will next see each other and having to organise it.

    In a lot of relationships it can default to one person which can give rise to what you are feeling. Some people just aren't aware of it until it is mentioned or else they think that the guy should be the one doing the ringing and organising.

    Talk to her about it, explain it is making things seem one-sided and it would be nice if she took the initiative from time to time
    and do it sooner rather then later, other wise what you are feeling will grow and fester.


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