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Should we go?

  • 19-07-2009 8:06pm
    #1
    standardtoaster
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 63 ✭✭


    Hey,
    Just want to get a quick sense of peoples opinion on this!!

    My current girlfriend who is amazing has always wanted to go to certain city (She's never been there) for an aul break (We have never been away together).
    My idea is to book flights and accomadation and surprise her for her birthday.

    However,
    I had previously been going out with my ex (broke up over 18 months ago, very seldom are in contact) for a number of years and this was also the first city we went away to togehter. Now I don't think my current gf would really care as she is in no way insecure about (or has any reaon to be) my past gf.
    I guess I just want us to start making our own memories and great times togehter and don't want her to think I'm trying to repeat my previous relationship or that I'm trying to relive past memories.

    Ideally I'd like us to go somewhere neither of us have been before but between the two of us within Europe that is not going to happen.

    So do you reckon I should go ahead with above as our first trip or should I think of something else?????

    Cheers in advance!!


Comments

  • #2
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    Ah go for it. The past is the past.. Sure why would she mind and its a lovely idea.

    100% go.

    Enjoy


  • #3
    mikemac
    Closed Accounts Posts: 19,969 ✭✭✭✭mikemac


    Go for it!


  • #4
    This
    Closed Accounts Posts: 191 ✭✭This


    i have bought out the bf's exs half of a holiday home... thought it would be weird... but as was said the past is the past.... just enjoy it!!!!!!!!


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hey
    Go for it,, as you said your making new memories,, just dont have an identical break.. ie same hotel, same everything,, and whilst your just dont be constantly telling her what everything is like,, (can be so easily done and make people feel uneasy) just leave her to experience it for herself..

    Have a great trip
    xxx


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