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Advice - relationship

  • 18-07-2009 02:13PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    I have been going out with my girlfriend now for over 2 years. We met in a bar through friends. We never really were friends - just agreed to meet a few days later for a date and they just continued and been togther since.

    It is for both of us a first - in terms of a long term serious relationship. We got on great, had some of the same interests, habits, etc. However now I notice we are having a few arguements over minor things lately.

    I think also from my side - I have been questioning has the relationship run its course, has the spark gone. She still says she loves me, etc, so is probably not aware of my feelings.

    We do not live together, but we do see each other everyday.


    I would appreciate any advice.


Comments

  • #2
    WeeBushy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,572 ✭✭✭WeeBushy


    I would suggest that you take a long hard look at the situation, why you are together etc and then talk to her about how you feel.

    If you feel the spark has gone try and relight it; go away for a weekend together, romantic date or something that you both enjoy doing and try and rekindle what it was you had when you first got together.


  • #3
    Coffee Addict
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27 ✭Coffee Addict


    Talk to her, its not fair to drop a bombshell on her.
    Be open & honest......you obviously haven't been for a while & this could be the reason you think its run its course.
    All relationships need honesty no matter what.
    Think how you would feel if she thought things had run there course & had not said it to you & then out of the blue dropped that on you.

    Relationships are something that you need to work at you can easily get into a rut & getting out of it can be hard.
    You need to ask yourself do you love her & is this just a patch you are going through.
    Remember why you got together & break the routine go out on dates, walks..things you have never done before even the most simple of ideas can sometimes be the nicest.
    You must be honest with yourself first though, before you can be honest with her.
    I hope things work out for you


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