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Need help in getting over ex

  • 17-07-2009 10:40pm
    #1
    clumo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5 ✭


    hey guys this is my first post, :D
    im 18 live in leinster area, im just having trouble getting over my ex, was with her for nearly 2 years and we really really got on well, like my best friend.
    we broke up for a couple reasons about 6 months ago and ive been finding it hard to stop thinking about her since.
    it doesnt help that shes had 2 BFs since and that i,unfortunalty, leave close and end up sseing her around in pubs etc.
    ive tried with things with a couple of women but i end up comparing them to my last relationship as it was so good.
    any help would be really appriciated.
    thanks


Comments

  • #2
    declanx
    Closed Accounts Posts: 46 ✭declanx


    Dude your only 18 and I know it sucks. You do not need another woman straight away. You have nothing to prove. I've been there. She'll have lots more BF's so don't worry about it because it’s none of your business. Get a new hobby (car, motorcycle, xbox) to widen your circle of friends. Go to college in another county. Learn from the relationship. Move on, or you'll spent the rest of your life going through "what ifs".
    Your future is full of possibilities, don't waste it day dreaming about a girl.


  • #3
    Novella
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    Know the feeling but trust me, time heals all wounds and no break up is ever as bad as the one with your fist love or whatever so chin up :) You are only 18 so you should just concentrate on having fun right now, going out, hobbies etc. It would probably be easier to get over her if you didn't talk to her for a while, maybe. I don't know if you two are still in contact but generally cutting out the texting and things is a good idea so you stop thinking "Oh, she said X, Y and Z, maybe she wants to get back together.". Have fun with your friends and in no time, you'll realise how great it is to be single when you are young. Worry about relationships later!


  • #4
    clumo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5 ✭clumo


    thanks guys, you know how sometimes you just need to hear these things from somebody else, i know myself that time will sort everything out but sometimes just saying it to yourself isnt good enough.
    thanks again and i really appriciate you guys writting a reply.
    the kindness of strangers is always wonderful.
    the people on boards.ie desreve a noble peace prize. seriuosly some of the support people have given other people that they dont know is amazing.
    but yeah i had been chatting to her here and then so i think ill just try to stop it for a few months and hopefully she wont take it personally.and if she does....oh well.


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