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  • 17-07-2009 1:22pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi guys, im in a bit of a pickle and just looking for some advice.

    I started seeing this girl a few months ago, we are similar in age (27) and we get on great and she seems as mad about me as i am about her but theres a bit of a problem...

    She was married for the last few years and it all ended last november, she has one child from this marriage. Everytime we meet up or get together we have such a great time but then she calls it off the next day, sayin that its all too much for her and shes not ready but then i get a call asking me to see her the next week. Weve tried seeing each other as 'friends' till she gets her head sorted but it never lasts and we always end up together again.

    I dont know what to do, I know she really likes me but she doesnt seem to be too stable at the minute.


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  • #2
    Wagon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    I'd leave it. You cant have a meaningful relationship with someone who keeps changing their mind so as hard as it might be, end it completely and save both her sanity and more importantly, yours..


  • #3
    J Peterman
    Closed Accounts Posts: 30 ✭J Peterman


    If you want to do the right thing by this girl, break it off. Tell her you're into her and you'd like to be there for her, but the best thing would be for her to be on her own for a while till she sorts her own head out.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I am recently divorced too, it is very painfull but mostly very very scary especially when you have a child.

    Does her child like you?


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