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First time girlfriend

  • 16-07-2009 1:43pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi guys, basically i'm a 20 year old guy going out with my amazing 20 year old girlfriend 6 months. I know she's been in a fair few relationships before so was very suprised to find out she's a virgin. However she is very comfortable around me and wants to have sex and we have come close a few times but she finds it painful or uncomfortable when we're nearly there and so we haven't been able to.
    Just wondering if you guys have any tips? I've been with a fair few girls before but never a virgin, and i do love this girl so just want to make it as painless as possible!
    Thanks a million!


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    a lot of foreplay.. you are probably not spending enough time on her if you are having difficulty. try bring her to orgasm before having sex.


  • #3
    VaioCruiser
    Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭VaioCruiser


    20guy wrote: »
    Hi guys, basically i'm a 20 year old guy going out with my amazing 20 year old girlfriend 6 months. I know she's been in a fair few relationships before so was very suprised to find out she's a virgin. However she is very comfortable around me and wants to have sex and we have come close a few times but she finds it painful or uncomfortable when we're nearly there and so we haven't been able to.
    Just wondering if you guys have any tips? I've been with a fair few girls before but never a virgin, and i do love this girl so just want to make it as painless as possible!
    Thanks a million!

    I think the thing is not to focus solely on the penetration part of sex. Enjoy being close, cuddling, caressing and making love together... take your time and pay attention to all of her. This will develop a mood and her body will respond to make her ready. Enjoy the process and not just the end goal.

    All the best.


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