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Nabbing someone from your past?

  • 15-07-2009 3:08pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    My boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me a while ago and while very hurt, trying to move on with my life as best i can, before this bf came on the scene, i was interested in a different guy, we have a mutual (ish) friend, more his friend than mine these days and he added me on his msn and social networking sites before i even met him. we got on really well and he was openly flirty and we hung out together in a group of friends a few times but nothing ever happened. contact diminished when i started going out with my ex boyfriend. however i have thought about this guy since we stopped talking and expecially now that im single again. i have his email, MSN (he doesnt seem to be on much) and mobile number but i don't know how or if i should contact him. he also works in a bar/ club thats near my house but i haven't been there in ages. i don't even know if he is going out with some one but i cant get him out of my head.. any advice??


Comments

  • #2
    Silverfish
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,698 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    Make contact with yer man, ask him to meet for a drink or a coffee.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Go to the bar/club first & see if you can get chatting to him there.


  • #4
    StopWhispering
    Closed Accounts Posts: 55 ✭✭StopWhispering


    You have 4 different methods of contacting him.
    You like him.
    He works near you.
    All signs point to yes!

    I'd say dropping into him on a non-busy day at work (so you can get a chance to talk directly to him) would be a great way to kick things off again, even if it's just a casual "hey, how are you?". This leaves you open to send him a text afterwards, something along the lines of "good seeing you again, what are you up to?" to get the ball rolling while letting him know that you are pleased to see him again. After that, it's up to you.

    But needless to say, if he was flirty before then he'll be flirty again once you get that ball rolling.

    So roll that ball! :)


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