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Head wrecked...

  • 15-07-2009 11:16am
    #1
    unklekracker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Get real. You are only going out with this girl and you would like to control who she does and does not keep in contact with. You have no right to do this. If you are going snoop on someones personal networking site, be prepared to see things you don't want to see. Thats an invasion of privacy too. The real problem is your insecurity. You need to stop this now. Be thankful that you are seeing the girl and that it is going well. If she does not want to see this guy and has told him she has a boyfriend, if thats not enough to stop his pursuit, then maybe she is not telling the truth and enjoys the contact from him. You are in the early stages of a relationship, just enjoy it. Don't overanalyse it to the point of breaking up.


  • #3
    kittenkiller
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,433 ✭✭✭kittenkiller


    In fairness to her, if she's told the guy that she's with someone and that they can remain friends (as opposed to I'm getting some now, please don't contact me, I'm only interested in one thing and now I'm getting it I don't need you), it would be blatently obvious if she declined his friend invitation.

    Leave her be unless you don't trust her. In that case you should probably just dump her now because you'll only end up hurting each other before you realise that it's not going to work.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Unregistered wrote: »
    Get real. You are only going out with this girl and you would like to control who she does and does not keep in contact with. You have no right to do this. If you are going snoop on someones personal networking site, be prepared to see things you don't want to see. Thats an invasion of privacy too. The real problem is your insecurity. You need to stop this now. Be thankful that you are seeing the girl and that it is going well. If she does not want to see this guy and has told him she has a boyfriend, if thats not enough to stop his pursuit, then maybe she is not telling the truth and enjoys the contact from him. You are in the early stages of a relationship, just enjoy it. Don't overanalyse it to the point of breaking up.

    Agree100%..you will just drive her away...relax and enjoy and stop worrying..what will happen will happen..if she wanted to go out with him she would do so..she is with YOU ..(I speak from experience unfortunately :( )


  • #5
    unklekracker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭unklekracker


    Hey guys,

    Op here. Cheers for the replies, much appreciated. Suppose i'll just roll with it and give the relationship my best shot.

    It is my own insecurities that are getting the better of me so I guess it's me with the problem and not my girlfriend.

    Thanks again


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