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Seperated and confused

  • 13-07-2009 10:08am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ive just started seeing this seperated father of 3 whom I really like and get on well with. However, I cant get past the issue that he is not long seperated and has 3 children to support etc. Am I being silly or should I just cut my looses now and move on before getting hooked??


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  • #2
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    Is he truly over the ex? Willing to move on? What does he want out of life? Would he ever marry / have kids again? Do ye agree on this


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Not really sure to be honest! Only seperated 6 months so its very confusing. Seems to be very definite that his marriage is over alright, but I'm not sure if its worth the hassle of getting involved in a relationship under these circumstances. Surely if he is just out of a marriage, he should be out finding his feet and sorting out his life etc etc?? Do I really want to go down that road and risk getting hurt?


  • #4
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    BAsed on my own experiences, I would not get involved. The timescale is very short since his separation adn there is a lot to be sorted out. Do you want the hassle of being involved in this?


  • #5
    VaioCruiser
    Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭VaioCruiser


    Summer Sun wrote: »
    Ive just started seeing this seperated father of 3 whom I really like and get on well with. However, I cant get past the issue that he is not long seperated and has 3 children to support etc. Am I being silly or should I just cut my looses now and move on before getting hooked??

    It sounds like he has sorted himself out well and is well over his marriage, but you are just not that into him enough.

    Life is about risks. Everyone carries some baggage. My advice is walk away and wait until you really want someone. It will do him a favour because the last thing he needs is someone who is half hearted.

    All the best


  • #6
    Astrogeek
    Closed Accounts Posts: 195 ✭✭Astrogeek


    VaioCruiser wrote: »
    It sounds like he has sorted himself out well and is well over his marriage, but you are just not that into him enough.

    Life is about risks. Everyone carries some baggage. My advice is walk away and wait until you really want someone. It will do him a favour because the last thing he needs is someone who is half hearted.

    All the best

    I agree with VaioCruiser on this one. How much do you like this guy? We can't tell you if he is completely over his last relationship. He might not know for certain himself. It's the same with any relationship. You have to decide if he is worth the risk.


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