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Arrghhh This is Another 'What Should I Do" Post

  • 12-07-2009 3:04pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 394 ✭✭


    Hi all,

    Sorry about another one of these posts but I just need a tiny bit of advice on how to proceed here.

    So I am in the US for a shortterm stay in a University and I literally know about 3 people well so friends and buddies to hang around with are thin on the ground so far. I met this guy through a friend (she connected us up when I arrived here) and while he is ok company, the fact that I dont have many freinds options means I am happy enough to spend time with him. Terrible I know but we have similar interests. I dont know what his intentions are (hopefully nothing) and we are just friends.

    So I met two of his friends last night and we all went out dancing. And hot diggity (I wasnt expecting this) didnt one take my breath away! My type, lovely fella and one of the coolest people I know!

    While one of my conundrums is the 'ooh, is he interested in me' I kinda dont care about that right now. What I really want to know is how should I proceed?


    He is staying with my original friend while in town so I dont think he is a fully independant person if you know what I mean. I imagine they would kinda come as a package, and there is a third friends aswell.

    Just thinking would it be werid to text the guy I like to see if he wanted to hang out when he is the friend of the friend (I would feel like I am totally bypassing the original friend and just kicking him to the curb, which is what I am doing really).

    I should I hold tough for another while as I am sure we will all be hanging out again together? But we are both only in town for another short time so I dont want to be waiting and trying to figure it out, time is precious.

    All advice appreciated. I more just dont want be rude to the original friend and want to thread carefully as, like i said, dont know what his intentions are?! :o


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I d text him, go after him allright. Time is precious and maybe just tell the other friend you are into this person and ask for advice of him as would kill two birds with one stone, one might help get him and also let him know you are not into him. Cant tiptoe around afriad to offend anyone. The original guy is only after meeting you so he s hardly truly madly deeply into you


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