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No Feeling

  • 12-07-2009 7:44am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I can't ask any of my friends about this i would be too embarrased so im hoping that someone in boards land can help me. The problem is when i have sex with my new partner once he enters me i don't really feel anything. I'm not very experienced (have only had one other sexual partner and didn't feel much then either but he was quite narrow) The new partner is very well endowed, so i assume that is not the problem and rather that there is something wrong with me. I would be very grateful for any help or advice on this


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  • #2
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    Just asked my oh.
    Suggests
    a) you to use the kleigel (spelling right off) exercises to tighten the muscles.
    b) does it feel different when your or your partners use your fingers / vibrator?
    c) try a few different positions; some are better / worse for stimulation

    Have you spoken to the women's clinic on this?

    Don't immediately jump to the conclusion it's all you - it could be your partners.


  • #3
    Joey the lips
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,262 ✭✭✭✭Joey the lips


    I cannot speak for women parts but have you ever tried to discover where your feeings are down there yourself. That way when your with your partner you can help him discover it.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    You're completely normal. If I stuck a carrot inside me I wouldn't feel a thing! If you barely touch my clitoris on the other hand I would be highly aroused. Everyone is different. I'm 28 and am still learning about my body and new ways to get myself going. Most women I know don't get off on penetration alone and need clitoris stimulation, that is where our nerve endings are after all!

    Anyway, you're only developing sexually. You have lifetime ahead of you where you will learn what gets you going. Talk to your girl friends, you'd be surprised how similar they may be.

    And have fun and stop worrying!


  • #5
    kmart6
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,174 ✭✭✭✭kmart6


    I''m off carrots for awhile now!!!!

    OP,can you feel anything when a penis isn't involved?!


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