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Overthinking or should I be worried?

  • 11-07-2009 09:39AM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    My boyfriend of one year+ and I were talking and threesomes came up as a joke at first. I then asked him what he really thought of of them. He said that 'hypothetically, if sex life got boring between us he would consider one then but the third person would have to be another girl and not a guy'.

    The thought of sex becoming boring never entered my head and now I'm questioning why he thought of it even 'hypothetically'. Saying that, I'd never want to have one. I am open minded about pretty much everything except sharing what I prefer to be an intimate act with just the man I love. It's like a can of worms is opened now as I feel like if sex ever becomes boring he's going to expect me to entertain him with another girl. Am I just overthinking things?.


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  • #2
    herya
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,571 ✭✭✭herya


    Just tell him straightaway that you're strictly not interested in any threesomes before you both start getting uncomfortable ideas.


  • #3
    Otis Driftwood
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,925 ✭✭✭Otis Driftwood


    herya wrote: »
    Just tell him straightaway that you're strictly not interested in any threesomes before you both start getting uncomfortable ideas.

    +1
    If he knows from the off it isnt going to happen then that should be the end of it.


  • #4
    Adamisconfused
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 268 ✭✭Adamisconfused


    Why did you ask the question you didn’t want to know the answer to?
    If he said, “if Megan Fox jumped into bed with us, I wouldn’t as much as look at her”, then quite frankly, it would probably be a lie.
    You got it in one when you said that you’re over-thinking this. The unfortunate thing is that your boyfriend didn’t realise that the correct answer to your question was, “eww….threesomes…. No thanks. I love you, honey. I’ve eyes for no one else”.
    He’s not bored with his current sex life. There are no hidden messages in what he said. He came up with an answer on the spot and had not given it any prior consideration.


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