Relationship problem

LegacyUser

My fiance and I have been engaged now for almost a year and been together for 4 years. We do not live together, she shares with friends, while i live at home with her parents.

It is a first for us both - a long term serious relationship, usually a few months was how long previous relationships lasted for us both.

I guess we fell in love fast and everthing went well until recently. For the last 3 months we just seem to be getting on each others nerves. For even the smallest thing we have a fight.
I tried talking to her the other evening and she did admit it was a concern but did not think it was a big issue and certainly did not think it was happening for the last 3 months.

A few weeks back, she bit my head off for no reason - I had just met her - I avoided her for a few days and when we did discuss it, she simply said she was having a bad day.

Also throw into the mix, that my sister and her are not talking anymore, neither my fiance or I know why and certainly would not ask my sister - that is a lost cause immediately.

Then I get the impression from my mom that she does not like her anymore either and hints I get leave me thinking she wants up to break up (have not told fiance).

So, maybe the situation at home is causing the problems between myself and my fiance. But the whole situation has got to me - making me extremely unhappy.

I just do not know what to do.

I would be grateful for any advice.

DangerMouse27

Echo Echo....that sounds exactly like my old relationship with my..heres the key..ex fiance!

In my case we were living with her twin.

Id say first of all forget about the family issues coz that will just clog everything up in confusion.At the end of the day ye got together despite or without any input from the families and you both will have big decisions ahead that only the two of you as the new family will make.

How old is your sister? sounds like immaturity or maybe she has a genuine reason but its your duty as the brother to find out whats wrong with her.Thats a fixable right there.
Your sister loves you so she will tell you eventually.

Your mother sounds like hints all right but your reading into this alot.If she hasnt said anything directly id let go of that equation because that will only bring more doubt.

Sounds like you might not be getting enough quality time with each other and its making you both insecure as to the relationship.Maybe a cheap b and b weekend away is in order?

Dont give up on it!

wexford202

I was in the same type of situation before and although I hated admitting in I really think mothers have a sixth sense and know that it won't work out.

My mother was right.

I think you should have a sit down with your mum and ask her why she seems to be taking a dislike to your girl now when she didn't before.

I think they may both know something you don't.