Sex in car

LegacyUser

I have sex with my boyfriend in car. I feel like a wh**e. But there is no where else to go. I'm in my mid 20s and circumstances just don't allow being at home. I just feel like he thinks im easy cause of it, maybe respected a little less and jeez it's a freakin' car. so uncomfortable. and dangerous. Is any one else in this situation? Is it common?

Astrogeek

Why are you having sex in a car if you aren't comfortable doing it?

I've done it I few times, but you shouldn't feel a need to do anything you don't want to do.

legend365

Been there never to return. Im over 6ft so its pretty ridiculous

Why not a weekend away or a night in a hotel.

prinz

Unregistered wrote: »

I have sex with my boyfriend in car. I feel like a wh**e. But there is no where else to go. I'm in my mid 20s and circumstances just don't allow being at home. I just feel like he thinks im easy cause of it, maybe respected a little less and jeez it's a freakin' car. so uncomfortable. and dangerous. Is any one else in this situation? Is it common?

So let me get this straight; you feel like a whore, you feel like he thinks you're easy, you feel less respected..... why are you doing this again?

Latchy

Well it's not much different to dogging OP.

Except , and I'm sure , you and boyfriend dont have any viewers

I_am_Jebus

Unregistered wrote: »

I have sex with my boyfriend in car. I feel like a wh**e. But there is no where else to go. I'm in my mid 20s and circumstances just don't allow being at home. I just feel like he thinks im easy cause of it, maybe respected a little less and jeez it's a freakin' car. so uncomfortable. and dangerous. Is any one else in this situation? Is it common?

I don;t understand why you feel like a whore? I hate that word anyway. Having car sex does not make you easy or slutty.

But if you don't like doing it then you shouldn't do it, simple as that. But you defo shouldn't feel slutty about it.

Personally I love car sex, myself and my ex had plenty of great nights in the back (& front of my car) -even when we did have a house/bed available.

Each to their own,

VaioCruiser

Unregistered wrote: »

I have sex with my boyfriend in car. I feel like a wh**e. But there is no where else to go. I'm in my mid 20s and circumstances just don't allow being at home. I just feel like he thinks im easy cause of it, maybe respected a little less and jeez it's a freakin' car. so uncomfortable. and dangerous. Is any one else in this situation? Is it common?

Does he have an alternative ? why is it his fault ? Do you think he is easy because of it ?

randylonghorn

Unregistered wrote: »

I have sex with my boyfriend in car. I feel like a wh**e.

Definition of a whore: one who sells sex for payment.

Someone who has sex in a car = someone who has sex in a car.

In precious generations, when people lived at home for longer, and attitudes to sex were more rigid, probably the majority of "coorting couples" (good on ya, Miley!) had sex in cars, haysheds, fields, the back row of the cinema, quiet alleys, you name it. Ok, it probably wasn't the most comfortable, but it didn't make them "whores". If we only knew it, some of us were probably conceived in such places!

Yes, cars can be uncomfortable, and you run the risk of being spotted (a risk which some people seem to enjoy!). You have every right to say "no, I don't want to do that!" But ffs don't make that decision because it makes you a whore, it doesn't; make it for a good reason.

In fact, looked at from one angle, insisting that you will only have sex in a hotel, for example, which he would have to pay for, is one step closer to ... ok, let's not go down that path!

Going Demented

No yournot a wh*re. Used to all the time before we moved in together. Got caught by cops, was funny but embarrassing.

Nevyn

Buy a popup tent, drive to a secluded spot and set up tent.

randylonghorn

Thaedydal wrote: »

Buy a popup tent, drive to a secluded spot and set up tent.

... and hope he pops up!


Sorry!

Nevyn

randylonghorn Unhelpful and off-topic posting will get you banned from this forum.
Do take time to read the charter which contains the rules and abide by them.
Have a nice day.
Thaedydal

rallye

I have had some of the best sex in my like in a car!!

You shouldnt feel like a whore though, its common for young couples to do it when they have no where else to go.

willy wonka

Completely agree with most of the posters - sex in a car is not whorish. (God that word is horrible). Car sex is very, very nice

Definitely a hotel/guesthouse for a naughty weekend would be what's on the cards. In fact I've been looking up Dublin hotels on ebookers today and some 4* ones were only €60 per room.

Mr Benevolent

Can you afford €30 each for a hotel for a night? It's false economy to have sex in a car when a hotel is much more comfortable.