Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

Family vs Fiance

  • 07-07-2009 2:51pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Am i unreasonable to expect to be able to invite my mom over and stay with my fiance and I in a different country where we both live together? I haven't seen any of my family since I got here 5 months ago.

    I am being made to feel like a mass-murderer for thinking such a thing -- I just can't understand and its tearing me apart.

    This issue is putting us on the brink of a total meltdown. Can someone help me see her side?


Comments

  • #2
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    Something tells me there's a bit more to the whole thing than just that... any other factors in play, OP?


  • #3
    prinz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    Seems innocuous at first glance, but there is probably a lot more to. Fiancée and future mother-in-law probably don't see eye to eye. Is it a tiny place you live in, i.e. would someone be on the couch/floor. Would your fiancée feel embarrassed by the area you live, the size of the house/flat whatever...... who knows. Would you expect fiancée to assume the role of house help and serve on your mother hand and foot? Could be many many things tbh.


Advertisement