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  • 03-07-2009 8:09pm
    #1
    personaltrainer
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 319 ✭✭


    Ok so long story,

    I'm 24 and was with a guy for 4 years, i started a new job and got involved with another guy - stupid i know - but anyway things were going well with the new guy and i split from my long term boyfriend.
    after two month i saw my ex in town and we started meeting again - wrong again i know - anyway my ex found out about the guy i was involved with in work and rang him and told him EVERYTHING.
    Things weren't good for a long time with the guy i worked with and the ex is totally out of the picture, but the guy i work with decided to take me back.
    so things were going well or so i though and last night i found out he's meeting my best friend who i also work with, i am completely devasted and dont know what to do :( is this just Karma what you give is what you get returned :(


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  • #2
    aoibhebree
    Closed Accounts Posts: 467 ✭✭aoibhebree


    You really don't sound ready to settle down with any one guy! Maybe you should consider staying single for a while and focus on yourself. You don't need to have a boyfriend to be happy!


  • #3
    personaltrainer
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 319 ✭✭personaltrainer


    I know that but i feel totally lost without someone :( plus where i live my two best friends was the guy and girl i work with and now i don't want anything to do with either of them.


  • #4
    Kirnsy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 970 ✭✭✭Kirnsy


    personaltrainer wrote: »
    I know that but i feel totally lost without someone :( plus where i live my two best friends was the guy and girl i work with and now i don't want anything to do with either of them.



    you are scared of being alone. its a selfish desire to be with someone...and this fella is the easiest option.

    IMO it'll do you good to be alone and force you to mature and become independent.


  • #5
    IRISH RAIL
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,097 ✭✭✭IRISH RAIL


    You reap what you sow op
    let this be a lesson and in future dont cheat.


  • #6
    happyfriday
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 390 ✭✭happyfriday


    I do think it would be a good idea to be on your own for a while. I remember being so scared at the thoughts of being on my own after I became single now I have been single for nearly a year and a half and I can honestly say I've never been happier in myself. I will say that meeting new guy's and stuff ain't easy, but I do think it's really important to spend some time alone and out of a relationship and 'find yourself' so to speak you'd be amazed what you find out about yourself. Also I have a huge network of friends now and wish for nights in :D But all and all I agree with the post above try being single for a while you won't regret it...


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