Really need some realtionship adv here

Dazzler88

i was going out with a girl 3 months ago and things were going really well.We got on the best and everything was rosy until one night she went to a party and ended up kissing the last fella she was with before me.The next day she came and told me what happned because she said she felt awful about it and didnt want to keep any secrets from me.I was so mad i told her i didnt want to go out anymore,she understood but told me that she didnt want to lose me but had to tell me.About a month later we ended up kissing and said we would give it another go,she promised that she never cheat again.The next few night we were out i use to get jealous anytime i seen her chattin other fellas(something that i never got jealous about before she cheated).I use to sulk about it even though she doesnt speak to the guy she cheated on me with.We kept fallin out everytime we were out so she said that if i couldnt trust her it wasnt goin to work,so we broke off again.Then around two weeks later we ended up kissing again and this time i asked her back out but she refused and said she only wanted to be friends anymore.Now weeks later she gets in touch and wants to get back together..What should i do???

dan719

Go to PI. It's over there.

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we'llallhavetea_old

Oh dear. I think maybe you should leave it. Is it worth the hassle? But then again, maybe the jealousy has subsided now? What do you think you'll be like if you get back together with this girl?

JimmyCrackCorn!

You should win her by proving your the alpha male.
Go to her house and pee in the corner



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jimmycrackcorm

Dazzler88 wrote: »

What should i do???

Obviously you should become gay.

mru

Dazzler88 wrote: »

What should i do???

Ask her and the ex for a threesome - it may be the bad kind, but meh. beggers can't be choosers, right champ?

Hail 2 Da Chimp

Ditch that zero and get yo self a HE-ro!!!

Overheal

You've got trust issues OP. Work on them. And I dont think you can do that while youre dating this girl. So you lost her. Write it off. Friendsies.

You had to have overreacted initially. My gut feeling would be to have said shyte and walked away the moment she admitted the initial kiss to you. You flew off the handle and said things you regretted later. Always better to delay a while before telling her you dont want to be with her anymore, you know? You ****ed this one up im afraid, by acting brashly.

The Jealousy issue, the anger at her (and the ex) all typically stinks of insecurity issues. I think thats how you ought to approach your situation for now. Take a good look and see why you might not be as confident about yourself as you would like. From the outside perspective she has come back to you. Several times now. So you must have something going on for you that extends beyond looks. But you don't see it. When you do find out what it is, and get a bit more confident in yourself, I think you'll find these jealousy issues melting away.

WindSock

Give her the clap.

antodeco

I was in a similar dilemma. My ex was going out with some guy for a few weeks and I hadnt seen her in a while. Then I was at a party and she was at it too. She looked so hot. Few drinks later and we got into some steamy dancing. One thing led to another and we went back to my place. Best night of sex ever. The next morning she felt really guilty and told me she would tell him. I tried reasoning with her but she was adamant in telling him. After another talk, she agreed to say we only kissed. Since then, Ive been having my way with her on several occasions. Not sure what happened the original dude.

wexford202

Just go for it.

Nothing too serious just a bit of fun.

Jealousy is a terrible thing.

phasers

Does she have a hot sister?

Tar.Aldarion

You will get stupid answers here. I am closing this thread and suggesting you make a thread here:
http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=1174

When you post it, it has to be approved by a moderator to be seen so you may have to wait a little while.