What to do?

LegacyUser

okay, so basically it all started in april.
i ended up chatting to this guy. we'll call him Dan, & basically we got on really well, i never thought much of it at first as he is a musician &there were loads of wee girls adoring him. i thought at most we'd be acquaintances.
the thing is, we started talking more & more often. After awhile, he starts revealing he loves me, that he thinks he's in love with me. he's never felt this before as in his last relationships hes been hurt really badly, & he truely thought i was 'the one'.
now, i passed it off saying it must be lust, as it all happened so fast.
but after awhile, i had the same feelings too.
we had little fights here and there but nothing serious. after every fight he'd be texting me, messaging me via facebook etc. He always showed that i was really important to him &he'd do anything for me.
anyways, after two months things got pretty serious. We talked everyday, stayed up all night talking about anything&everything.
I thought it was the real deal.
He told me how much he cared for me, he sent me songs he wrote about me, i honestly thought this could be it.
he talked to everyone about me, everyone would be saying "wow, hes actually in love with you" "he never shuts up about you" "you're all he ever wants to talk about"
then one day, we had a pretty big fight. he ended up saying "if i let you go, its because i care for you so much. you deserve so much better than me."
i didnt think much of it at the time, as we were so close, i never saw an end to us.
of course i was wrong, he started doing gigs. but just one here and one there, yet little to no contact.
i tried to contact him for the next good while, but it was me putting in 100% of the effort all the time.
so i asked him straight out what was up, why he stopped talking to me.. blah blah blah.
he said he was busy and that he was sorry.
i said okay, and kept up the contact but it got tough as i felt it should be a two way thing and he really was making no effort.
finally, about a week and a half ago i rang him. i was out that night and i came home and he was on my mind, his phone was turned off so obviously he didnt pick up. i went to sleep and thought nothing of it. then i woke up the next morning to a text saying "you called? X" i replied a simple yes, then he replied "so whats up?" and i didnt reply, he rang me, i didnt pick up the phone. that was it.
that was the last contact between us.
i was so sick of him not caring at that stage, that i really couldnt take it anymore. i deleted him from my friends in my online profiles, deleted his number etcetc. basically, i had rang him that night to tell him i couldnt do it anymore, i gave him so many chances, and that my heart was breaking.
but, he didnt even bother turning on his phone that night and i was worn out for making all the effort. so i decided, that was it. and i had to end it. right there and then, leaving him with the unreplied text. doing the same thing to him as he had done to me. but this time, i wasnt going to contact him again.
basically, long story short.
i miss him, i thought he was the one, he thought i was the one.
but what happened?
he hasnt tried to contact me since that day i didnt reply/pick up the phone.
has he stopped caring? or has he "let me go"?

also, to add. after one of our fights, he said he was ignoring me because he wanted to see if he could last without me, because he never felt more in love with someone and he needed me and was scared of it. he said he was "testing himself", but he said he couldnt do it for long as he missed me that much.

anyone know whats going on?
i usually can give such good advice but it seems when im the one in the sticky situation i cant figure out what went wrong.

thanks,
whathappened