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  • 30-06-2009 7:43pm
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    LegacyUser
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    hi all, i had a tread going in this forum a while back, http://boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055538189
    well basically, im looking for some follow on advice..my ex has basically been texting me a lot since we broke up, "from i miss u" to "its ur fault" to "plez text back" etc. i generally dont bother replying.
    well, i decided i needed to close this matter once and for all today, so when she text, i agreed to meet up. we met and shes telling me she misses me so much, she still loves me, and shes "going to fight to get everything we had before she left"..shes tells me she wants to contact me like we used to, like sending each other messages whenever something happens thats funny, she also says that we have gone through so much and had managed to stay together, that for the 15 months away, her friends used to as her if it bothers her not being able to go out and meet other people, and she said it never crossed her mind.she says we have too much of a good thing for it to be just thrown away, and she simply will not let it be thrown away as easily as that.
    im undecided to say the least!
    on one hand, as iv told her today, im hurt from before and i cant simply walk back into a relationship with somebody that has hurt me already (to which she offers that we take things slow, go back to just being around one another again, become friends again,and see what happens)
    on the other hand, if i walk away, am i throwing away the possibility of having the kind of happiness i once had, staying single and hoping i will find someone else.
    to be honest, iv never had a girl tell me as honestly as iv been told today that she still loves me and will fight tooth and nail to keep me,its a bloodly odd feeling and iv no idea on what actoin i should take! so i left saying i needed time to think things through..


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