Best time to text a girl

curious guy

Best time to text a girl after getting her number on a night out and where to take her without going into date mode and spending money? any views guys nd gals?

scrubs

text her when u get home just to see if she got in ok and leave it with chat to ya tomorrow... and wait..

curious guy

I like dat... avoids da whole problem... likin ur style

liah

What scrubs said sounds good.

Just make sure you're not too overbearing, and don't start madly texting the next day if she doesn't respond. If she doesn't respond, just leave it alone til she does, and if she doesn't, then just let it go.

scrubs

yep ur right just wait for to text back so going crazy textin ..

Adamisconfused

Are you sure you want to text someone you just met while drunk? Whatever she thinks at that moment will be different in the morning when she reads the garbled message again.
Personally, I like inviting people for breakfast or lunch. This was easy in college as you could just arrange to meet a person in the canteen and it seemed perfectly natural as both of you would probably be ending up there anyway.
It isn’t like a formal date since its daylight, so both of you can relax and get to know each other in a friendly manner.

As for spending money, you’ll hear people saying that you can’t spend ANY money on a girl or she’ll think you’re trying to buy her, etc, ect.
There is no harm meeting up with a girl and buying her a coffee or something relatively inexpensive that you’ll consume or use on the spot. Just don’t go buying her a diamond ring quite yet.;)

curious guy

yeah i like da breakfast/lunch idea bt not in coll at da moment...(bt makin mental note 4 nxt yr)

ah we both were nt drunk just merry...nd dat was thursday...

im at home in da country bt she lives only 10mins away.... didnt know she exsted till thurs nit...

any ideas for something to do that is lik

" isn’t like a formal date since its daylight, so both of you can relax and get to know each other in a friendly manner "

krudler

curious guy wrote: »

yeah i like da breakfast/lunch idea bt not in coll at da moment...(bt makin mental note 4 nxt yr)

ah we both were nt drunk just merry...nd dat was thursday...

im at home in da country bt she lives only 10mins away.... didnt know she exsted till thurs nit...

any ideas for something to do that is lik

" isn’t like a formal date since its daylight, so both of you can relax and get to know each other in a friendly manner "

Coffee and a stroll around a park or something

Or she could teach you how to use proper words instead of txt spk, you seem to have trouble with that;)

curious guy

yeah okay i will leave the text speak for the mobile seeing as ye are all so helpful..if I can....

anyway...there is a rally on tmrw over the road I might get her to join me watching it if shes around and we have a mutual friend that id be probably be going with anyway as well so il include him 2 (Nosey locals wll be annoying but feck them shur)

Zaph

curious guy wrote: »

yeah okay i will leave the text speak for the mobile seeing as ye are all so helpful..if I can....

Actually it would be appreciated if you would drop it as we don't permit text speak in this forum. Thanks.

curious guy

no problem

LegacyUser

text her the next day, the next evening even

and suggest a coffee. done

Cecil Mor

Just wait till you're blind drunk... and then phone her. Bound to work!!

VaioCruiser

curious guy wrote: »

Best time to text a girl after getting her number on a night out and where to take her without going into date mode and spending money? any views guys nd gals?

What is the point in going out with someone who isn't even attractive enough that you want to spend a few quid....... ??

curious guy

she is attractive enough to spend money on. Shes really hot actually. I dunno just find I like 2 spend time with a girl without her thinking it a date first because its less pressure and I dont wanna be trying to hard is all i suppose..

SarahSassy

curious guy wrote: »

ah she is attractive enuf 2 spend money on shes really hot actually i dunno jus find bringin i like 2 spend time wit a girl without her thinking it a date first cause less pressure nd dont wanna be tryin 2 hard is all i suppose..

Huh???

Can someone translate into English please?

emigrant36

That's fair enough! Actually like your thinking curious guy.
Definitely text a girl to see if she got home okay, that's just a nice thing to do! Sure ask her to the rally, if it's anything like my homeplace everyone will be going anyway because it's the only thing that's happening in the area!!

curious guy

oh sorry i was texting someone(herself actually) at the same time didnt mean to use text speak apologies il redo it.

Sin1981

Emmmm, the whole spending money thing..? you dn't wanna come across tight surely. How about walk on beach, in forest/park or whatever, followed by quick bite or drink. Sounds like a nice 'first date' to me. And as for texting: i'd say the next day after meeting her, and every 2/3 days after that until the date. just friendly texts.... if she likes you she'l want a zillion texts, if she's not so sure then she wont wanna be bombarded with texts... so if ur not sure what she thinks of you after the firfst meet up then better to keep it light til the date, and after that you'll know what's what, if you def into her and if she's into you!

curious guy

Yeah mit have rushed the date thing alright she kinda didnt t bk so it would of been prob better to tx for a while like you and get to know each other better before organising something. Oh i know its just like its just going on a rack of dates that cost money that may lead to nothing is frustrating to be honest maybe others agree. Its like if theres a spark there doesnt mater if its a fancy restaurant and your not trying to impress like.

WithCheesePlease

curious guy wrote: »

Yeah mit have rushed the date thing alright she kinda didnt t bk so it would of been prob better to tx for a while....

What is with the text speak???!!! Don't mean to sound like an old fogey but is this really what the world is coming to? Does grammar and spelling mean nothing anymore??!

As for when to text, it's simple - whenever it feels right to you. Don't over think it and don't play games. Easier in the long run. Just be yourself and act natural.

curious guy

Wlel grmmmer and seplling arnt really important if the first and last letters are correct has been scientifically proven.. just showing it in start of this sentence.
When your not using predictive text its faster and your limited to so many letters in a text message plus it takes an understanding and breakdown of a word to actually do it requiring extra intelligence.
Although its not all professional and boring but still does the same job.
I agree with not having it on this however. Small bit childish i suppose.

Agree with your comment about the text to a degree but hot girls play games with us in my opinion just the way their designed.