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Why do I still care?

  • 24-06-2009 7:04pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I've posted here before about being dumped by a guy I had known for years then started seeing again after a long time. Apparently he was too busy with college to have a relationship. Fast forward a few months, I've moved to another country as I couldn't find work in Ireland and this whole fiasco with him just made me wanna get away as well.
    We were emailing a few times just general how are you. He said a few weeks ago he's moving to the same country.

    I met a guy here about a month ago and things have been going super fantastic, lovely guy and we see each other several times a week. We spent the weekend together last weekend. He went home at lunch and I switched on my Irish mobile, I got a text from my ex's number sent at 3am basically saying he'd brought a girl home. I texted him back furious, no reply. I was still furious the next day so wrote an email saying never to contact me and that he was childish and pathetic. Got an essay back saying he didn't realise he'd texted me, was a mistake, apologising loads, was supposed to be for his mate.

    Now I feel nothing but hate for this ex. I went into a bad depression caused by him breaking up orginally, and meeting this new guy had my confidence at an all time high, life was pretty good. Now I just feel down again because of all this. I was at my boyfriends last night, I was trying to forget about it but was playing at the back of my mind.
    Why do I still care??!! I was forgetting about this guy and it's all come flooding back, I really just hate this guy for it and am really angry about it.


Comments

  • #2
    zxcvbnm1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 422 ✭✭zxcvbnm1


    your mistake was not cutting off all contact when you broke up.

    This whole "we'll still be friends" is rubbish.

    Like - what's the point in it?
    We all have our own friends so no need for a complicated new friendship.
    My advice - never contact him again and tell him to do likewise and in time you will most certainly forget him.

    Move on with your new guy - don't look back.


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