Confused and unsure, advice please

malibles

Hi all

sorry, kind of a long post but would really appreciate advice.

I've been seeing this guy for a few months now, we got on grand, text every day, met up a few times a week, thats all cool. really like him.

over the last few weeks though things have started turning a little strange. we didn't text as much ( but still more or less every day) but our meetings have definetly decreased to maybe once a week ( which for us is very little).

this guy is going to america for a year or so in October. we haven't really talked about this as such from an "us" perspective
i asked him the other night as we were texting was everything ok between us. he replied and said yeah but does not know what to think about "us" and him going to america. he asked me and we decided to have a think about it ( as in do we think there's any point continuing, also i don't think we were overly "officially a couple" so that complicates things too). 2 days later ( i haven't been speaking to him since then ) and i walked past him in the car this morning and he totally blanked me, passed him again a while later, same thing again i was shocked.

soooo question is.....do i text him during the week asking what does he think about it all or do i just leave it. the problem there is that the whole thing will just fade out and that just leaves awkwardness cos i will definetly bump into him before he goes. i really like him but i don't know what to do. i know long term we won't be together but i really don't know whether to just let it all fizzle out ( which i think is cowardly) or text him and ask him ( i don't know what kind of result i will get and i may sound like i'm naggin)

sorry about the long post!!! thanks xxx

idontknowmyname

To be honest, I think you should cut your losses and move on. He's not looking for anything serious, probably just a bit of fun before he leaves for America, so I hate to say it but he's using you, to blank you is horrible. I wouldn't stick around to be with someone who treats you like that.

zxcvbnm1

ya - blanking you is not good regrdless of whqt wqy he tries to explain it.

The writing is on the wall i'm afraid.