Hey guys I need ur advice?

LegacyUser

Right im more or less single - i have myself awful confused- right this time last year i met a great lad- hes lovely- real nice- was meeting him for about 10 weeks before he went to Austrailia for the year 1 of his mates- still in contact- txtin away n he rings the odd time- calls me hun,babe etc- we were tlkin the other day he asked me was there any thing or new people in my life? i was like nuthin new really- passed my exams thats about it- new people? nah dnt tink so...he wb ah i bet theres someone ur 2 hot 2 not be with ne1. i said to him awww ur sweet etc how bout u? he said no not at all but u still didnt answer the question - then he fell asleep....

dunno what to think of him- would ya think he just thinks of as mates or what? espec when he was askin was i with anyone?

or am i just over analysing things?????

HELP ME PLEASE

JonathanAnon

Sounds like he might have been a bit drunk, and maybe a bit jealous/curious/nosey. Prob not much point thinking about it too much if he's gonna be away for the year. I dont see what the problem is for you, you're gonna just have to get on with things and see how ye both feel when he gets back. Or are you thinking of heading out after him?

irish_goat

If anyone ever says you are too hot to not be with somebody and isn't in the position to be that somebody I'd generally assume they're not interested. My advice is that you should carry on going out, meeting people and acting single, you might find someone else in the year you'd spend waiting for him. If you don't then you can always meet him again when he comes back. Don't assume he's not living life to the full as a single man in Australia though.

Qprmeath

Just to be clear as its hard to read text speak. You went out with a nice guy who went to Oz. But one of his friends keeps in touch with you. Have I got that right? Sounds to me like he is interested but how interested at this stage would be hard to work out? If you like him why not suggest meeting up for a drink or a coffee, nothing too heavy.

Or is the guy in Oz who rang. This bit confuses me?

he went to Austrailia for the year 1 of his mates- still in contact- txtin away n he rings the odd time

irish_goat

Qprmeath wrote: »

Just to be clear as its hard to read text speak. You went out with a nice guy who went to Oz. But one of his friends keeps in touch with you. Have I got that right? Sounds to me like he is interested but how interested at this stage would be hard to work out? If you like him why not suggest meeting up for a drink or a coffee, nothing too heavy.

Or is the guy in Oz who rang. This bit confuses me?

he went to Austrailia for the year 1 of his mates- still in contact- txtin away n he rings the odd time

Think she meant he is in Australia, with mates (i.e. not another girl) and he is still in touch with the OP. The mates are not involved.

LegacyUser

Can we get a translator in here please???? There is nothing more rude than asking people to take the time to give you advice, yet you won't take the time to write clearly and save us the headache.

LegacyUser

Qprmeath wrote: »

Just to be clear as its hard to read text speak. You went out with a nice guy who went to Oz. But one of his friends keeps in touch with you. Have I got that right? Sounds to me like he is interested but how interested at this stage would be hard to work out? If you like him why not suggest meeting up for a drink or a coffee, nothing too heavy.

Or is the guy in Oz who rang. This bit confuses me?

he went to Austrailia for the year 1 of his mates- still in contact- txtin away n he rings the odd time

Sorry for all the confusion

yeah i went out with this guy who went to OZ last october- hes keeping in touch with me the whole time- hes still in OZ- hell be home in October.

legend365

Long story short.

Have fun until then.

If your not in a relationship, your not in a relationship!

VaioCruiser

Unregistered wrote: »

Right im more or less single - i have myself awful confused- right this time last year i met a great lad- hes lovely- real nice- was meeting him for about 10 weeks before he went to Austrailia for the year 1 of his mates- still in contact- txtin away n he rings the odd time- calls me hun,babe etc- we were tlkin the other day he asked me was there any thing or new people in my life? i was like nuthin new really- passed my exams thats about it- new people? nah dnt tink so...he wb ah i bet theres someone ur 2 hot 2 not be with ne1. i said to him awww ur sweet etc how bout u? he said no not at all but u still didnt answer the question - then he fell asleep....

dunno what to think of him- would ya think he just thinks of as mates or what? espec when he was askin was i with anyone?

or am i just over analysing things?????

HELP ME PLEASE

Hi there ...

DEFinitely over-analysing.

As someone else said... Have fun.... deal with it when he gets back.

All the best !

Oswald

legend365 wrote: »

Long story short.

Have fun until then.

If your not in a relationship, your not in a relationship!

Ditto -enjoy and summer and see how things work out when he gets back to Ireland.

And I thought I had problems :rolleyes: