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Girls, how should I play it? Second date !!

  • 23-06-2009 3:19pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm well used to net dating - have been on lots - some have lasted some not..
    however now I find myself after meeting a great lady..we got on brilliantly...second meet was agreed but not actually arranged as she's been away for a few days..

    We have chatted over the phone and texted in the meantime...

    So how do I play this? Be cool and dont chase her (risk of seeming not interested..) or come straight out and seek to arrange second date (and possibly seem to eager / keen / desperate..)

    Would love ladies opinions....

    BTW I have some posts on here about been heartbroken recently enough so I kinda need this distraction..if it works out great..if not it's a great distraction....


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    You guys have already ben textin and ringin without makin the specific plans for a second date so I think now is the time2 arrange it!! Shes probly expectin it 2be honest and wonderin why you havent already mentioned it. If you do it now, you wont seem2 keen but stil interested so its a win win situation!! ;) Perhaps ask her when shes free and if she wants to meet up, then let her decide where you guys will go so its al on even footin??
    Good luck!! ;)


  • #3
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    Dont play any games... It doesnt matter where you met her and the only difference with internet dating is that you have the notion up front that the other person is on a dating website cos they want to meet someone.

    I find it very attractive when a man makes no bones about asking you out. He asks, if you say yes then great, if not then no loss. Confidence in yourself is very attractive.

    Dont be cool with her but get on with your own life and dont chase her either. Give her a chance to get back from her trip and ask her out again. Good luck and enjoy.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Just ask her if she's free to meet up again & if so, when would suit her. If she's like most women she will prefer the direct approach to subtle texts & wondering if actually want to meet her or not.


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