Scenario

scarymoon1

ex boyfriend and girlfriend, boy dumps girl, girl gets angry because she was dumped and insults him and his family etc, boy gets back with girl but girl is still angry and insullts him again - could the boy ever forget these insults and not look at her differently??? or would he always remember the insults when he looks at the girl???

Madame Razz

Surely it depends on the nature of the insults and how strongly the boy feels about the girl in question??

scarymoon1

nature of the insults were very very very bad - and boy loves the girl - but maybe when he sees her he will always see the foul insults that she is capable of!!!

Double Top

Very good question, if it was me i wouldn't stay with her, couldn't look at her without thinking of the insults. but like they say love is blind maybe it's also deaf

LegacyUser

If its true love you can forget it all and stay with her

scarymoon1

so doubletop - u think it's impossible to forget it ya?

Double Top

scarymoon1 wrote: »

so doubletop - u think it's impossible to forget it ya?

i couldn't forget it, but it all depend's on how much the boy loves the girl, some of the stuff might of been said in anger and not really ment,

my family is my life and i don't let anyone say one bad word about them so i'm kinda baist.

but to answer your qusetion yes it would be impossible for me to forget

VaioCruiser

Hi OP - Sadly I must tell you - sometimes Love is just not enough.

Saying that I just don't know enough about your family and her, and why it 'might' be drawing her ire. Maybe she is being juvenile and rude, but has cause - and maybe she is just being a completely unfair obnoxious Bi**h about them. I don't know.

Only you can decide.

All the best.

scarymoon1

ive posted here be bout this and its still goint on..... boy thinks girl doesnt love him - thats why he dumps her numerous times - but in fact girl did but didnt show it. but deep down boy is not 100% ready to settle down.

kev_s88

it all depends on the person...some people are better at letting things go than others...my GF had a habit of not being able to let things go and pass them off as things done or said in the heat of the moment...and it eventually led to us breaking up...

just talk it out with him OP

LegacyUser

Depends on how much the boy loves the girl. If it's just like then generally it's hard to forgive the insults, however if there is some love there they can be forgiven more readily.