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Two girls - so complicated!

  • 19-06-2009 11:11pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    right....theres this 1 girl that i have a thing for for years, but within the last year basically i just forgotten about but still fancy. Also within the last year ive fallen head over heals for another girl, and would of done anything for chance with her, by the way the are two friends.

    Then the girl ive fancied for years came on to me and thinking ive no chance with her friend, went for it! Things started to go good, we werent going out or anything. Then the girl that i had fallen head over heals for kissed me one night, i just could'nt believe it!

    A few weeks had passed, and both of them knew what had happened. Then me and the first girl started to see each other again and i thought i had gotten over this other girl.

    Now, im starting to feel im settling for 2nd best as i really havent gotten over the other girl, and if so dont want to be leading this girl ive fancied for years on, but she a really lovely girl, i just cant choose. This time last year i would of given anything to have a chance with either of them, and now ive had chance with both of them and its been hell!

    What do think i should do, either way i think im going to end up with neither of them :(


Comments

  • #2
    VaioCruiser
    Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭VaioCruiser


    Jeeez life is a bitch sometimes isn't it ? :D you wait for one to come along and then two come along at the same time ....

    I have a bad feeling about this ... First of all you HAVE to get a grip and make a choice ! It's not like you plan to marry them tomorrow for goodness sakes.. :rolleyes: and the chances are you won't be dating either of them in two years time... Secondly... I really really wonder if you can have either of them, considering the likelihood of what has happened leaking out and exploding in your face.

    My advice is make a choice and go for it. Let it last for as long as it does... if it blows up, then move on. Enjoy life for what it is now.

    All the best !


  • #3
    TriceMarie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 645 ✭✭✭TriceMarie


    Very tricky situation as they're both friends :eek::(

    I guess you just have to sit down and think,go through pros and cons and shizzle...

    But,in my honest opinion,I have a feeling the girl you know for years would be slightly pi$$ed off if you went with her friend (the new girl)..but maybe only if she's fancied you for years too??...


  • #4
    kowloon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,583 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    Flip a coin. I know this sounds stupid, but if you flip a coin and find out that you're unhappy with the outcome, then you know which choice you should make. By the same logic, if you're very happy with the outcome, go with it.


  • #5
    flix1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 117 ✭✭flix1


    who helps you increase your vitamin C intake!


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