To let go or hold on

LegacyUser

ok so have been with my girlfriend two years right and i'm only 17 (still only a wee baby)

she is a psycho case, i mean she is the definition of bunny boiler

i cant talk or hang out with other girls without remarks from her such as, youre always with girls, you cant hang out with her, who are you texting now, and the icing on the cake: why dont you just go off with her

like i love her but the old cliché of am i in love with her pops into my head. i think about other girls a lot but have never acted upon it.

she is so full of lies too, she keeps promising sex, but then puts it off, and i'm not even in it for bloody sex!!!! but at least tell the truth of youre going to do it say it if not then dont etc.

i'm just sick and tired of this, she treats my girl friends like shoit for talking to me and throws them dirty looks etc.

i just wouldnt like to see/hear of her with other guys too!

dilemma!! ugh

head hurts

advice please

much thanks

You're not happy, jsut leave her and find someone to spend your youth with who doesn't wreck your head. Simple as. Believe it or not you're not obligated to be in a relationship with someone particularly if you don't get along because they're a dramaqueen.

SarahSassy

That is bs behaviour and no one needs to put up with being bossed around like that. Grow a pair and move on.

Trinity

This is one time in your life you will never get back, dont waste it on this crap

and let me tell you as well, loads may disagree, but your first real relationship can have knock on effects for years, the can mar your judgement, you begin to think is this treatment normal? And you could end up falling for the same type of girl as you get older

Start as you mean to go on lad, enjoy your youth, ya can never get it back

pookie82

You're far too young to put up with this crap. Why are you wasting your time on this girl? She's clearly a very insecure, jealous and controlling person - I fail to see how you can have any kind of healthy future with her.

Let's face it - it's your first relationship, the liklihood of it not lasting forever is extremely high, I suggest you cut your losses now and get out of it. Yes it will be tough for a while and if you hear of her with someone else etc it will hurt but in the long run you'll be delighted you did it.

go and play the field. As you said yourself, you're still only a baby.

legend365

SUFFOCATED wrote: »

she is a psycho

Done and done. You've summed it up there.

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i just wouldnt like to see/hear of her with other guys too!

Believe me man your not the only one in the world who thinks that way. Its built into most men! Only way to avoid hearin such stuff is to cut contact completely.

Plus if she would be with another bloke...im sure he'll be getting the same run around.