I feel terrible

LegacyUser

Hey, the other day myself and my girlfriend of almost 2 years broke up. it was mutual because we are both going away for about 6 months after the summer to different places. we had been fighting lately and decided to call the relationship off and if we feel anything when we get back the we could get back together. thing is I miss her loads. I dont want to call or text her as we agreed a "cool off" period. I know time will heal all wounds but this sucks I feel terrible.
Another thing is on her facebook this guy all of a sudden is commenting her loads. This makes me feel like sh1t. I'd love her back and the tought of her with anyone else is really upsetting me.
Anybody been in a situation like this? advice?

LegacyUser

op here. do you think i should send her an email saying how im feeling?

LegacyUser

NO..Leave it for a few weeks..dont go chasing her..I made that mistake and got me knowhere...plenty more out there

LegacyUser

op again. I have left it a few days and havent had contact with her. But everyday im checking her facebook just to see her. I really wanna give her a text today to say We made a mistake and we should give it a go before we leave. I love her, I want to see her. It didnt end on bad terms or anything.

Is this the right thing?

Final Approach

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op again. I have left it a few days and havent had contact with her. But everyday im checking her facebook just to see her. I really wanna give her a text today to say We made a mistake and we should give it a go before we leave. I love her, I want to see her. It didnt end on bad terms or anything.

Is this the right thing?

I can only tell you what I would probably do if I were in your situation, and remember, I don't really know anything about the relationship except what you've said which is very little. Having said all that, I would probably arrange to meet her and tell her how I feel. I would then ask her to go and think about what I've said, whether she feels the relationship is worth another go (with the introduction of certain changes of course to prevent argueing so frequently). Just ask her to listen, and tell her that you want her
to think about what you've asked her for a few days before she gives you an answer.

You never know, it would be a pity to think she is feeling the same way as you now, and neither of you made contact to try and resolve your problems instead of remaining apart.

By the way, FORGET the texts and facebook. This is something that must be done face to face. Ring her and tell her you need to meet her because you have one or two things to tell her. That is all, full stop. The rest waits until you see her.

LegacyUser

thanks john, I think your right. I'll do that. Clear my chest and ask her to think about it. then I will know I have done everything I could have. thanks