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Issues with the OH

  • 15-06-2009 6:44pm
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    LegacyUser
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    So I've been going out with my girlfriend for a few months, ofcourse we have had some arguements and other issues but this seems completly differnt,

    Ended up going out with her to a 21st on Saturday just gone, drink where flowing and we where having fun, started to get abit tipsy nothing to over the top she had been wondering what had been going on as I wasn't my usual self, outgoing and very chatty and close.

    I came clean and told her one of her friends (my ex whom i had only been with 3 weeks) still liked me, she absoulutly freaked out and went into a huge p1sser moaning and walked off and wouldn't talk to me, when i did get around talking to her she kept asking me what was the point as in me and her, I had to stay in hers that night as i couldn't make it back to mine, I got in the spare bedroom and she came in saying that if i wanted my ex she wasn't going to stop me and walked out I was about to go up when she came back in saying that she was sorry about what she said and we ended up talking and geting very close I thought oh great were back on track not going to let something like that disturb our relationship . Went to bed and thought no more of it.

    I get up in late morning with her and she's back in the same mood she was, when I kissed her she kept shaking her head, she made me promise never to talk to the ex again and to ignore her at every oppurtunity I duely agreed, I Love this girl so much that I never thought i'd allow someone have that much control as to tell me but It's worth it in my opinion.

    But she seems to be still holding it over my head at every oppurtunity if I say something that might tease she will just start telling me to f*ck off and go away, she keeps telling me that we are fine.

    I have no idea what to do, she told me she wasn't the jelous type and I'm beginning to think she's slightly insecure.

    I'm looking for advice to help her come out and show her feelings to me not just about this but other things in general aswell. I'm usually the one who has to sort things out to see her and do stuff, she tells me she's just like this but I have really no idea. I wanna try resolve any issues that we might be having.

    When times are good there great when there bad there the worst moments I've ever experianced in any relationship!


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