New guy

LegacyUser

I met a guy a couple of months ago and we immediately hit it off, he asked for my number at the end of the night and I gleefully gave it to him. Our first date was the best ever, we really clicked and he even commented on it that night, perfect gent, kissed me goodnight and put me in a cab home. We text everyday since and have been out several times since then and getting on famously. Friday night we went out, had a great night and we spent night together (and the next morning and afternoon!!) he called over out of the blue on sunday evening to take me to dinner (with flowers pinched from my neighbours garden!)... everything was fine... so we've text everyday as normal....

thing is, we were supposed to go out on tuesday night for a drink and he cancelled (had a genuine sounding reason) anyway i said it was cool and we could head out later in the week if he wanted. I've heard nothing from him... do you think he's gone running? I have a feeling he has. I haven't text him since either though, so do you think maybe I should text him and I'm just being paranoid?

Wibbs

Text him.

Katgurl

Text him or phone him and ask him when he's free to meet up again.

you're with him 2 months, its been all good so far. no reason to overthink things. If he doesn't get back to you you'll know its over & can get onto the next one.

iMax

Wibbs wrote: »

Text him.

No, don't. Call him. Texting is for kids and teenagers.

Don't think "Oh I'd be too embarassed/couldn't do that etc" you've had your vagina wrapped around his penis. believe me, you can call him.

Hope it works out, sounds like a good guy. hopefully he is.

banshee_bones

Call or text whatever you feel comfortable with. Least then you will know one way or another. Best of luck.

John Mason

PHONE HIM

coadyj

unregistered wrote: »

I met a guy a couple of months ago and we immediately hit it off, he asked for my number at the end of the night and I gleefully gave it to him. Our first date was the best ever, we really clicked and he even commented on it that night, perfect gent, kissed me goodnight and put me in a cab home. We text everyday since and have been out several times since then and getting on famously. Friday night we went out, had a great night and we spent night together (and the next morning and afternoon!!) he called over out of the blue on sunday evening to take me to dinner (with flowers pinched from my neighbours garden!)... everything was fine... so we've text everyday as normal....

thing is, we were supposed to go out on Tuesday night for a drink and he cancelled (had a genuine sounding reason) anyway i said it was cool and we could head out later in the week if he wanted. I've heard nothing from him... do you think he's gone running? I have a feeling he has. I haven't text him since either though, so do you think maybe I should text him and I'm just being paranoid?

ehhh its Thursday, why so upset? You never know what happened on Tuesday, maybe he was meeting an ex or something he hasn't shared with you. Give him till sat and phone him.

<I dont mean to scare with the meeting an ex thing, 99% of the time its harmless>

SarahSassy

unregistered wrote: »

We text everyday since

This would send small alarm bells ringing... He cancelled and you have not heard from him for 2 days... Time to call him and suss out what is going on.. Only call once and if there is no reply let him come back to you.

LegacyUser

OP back again... Didn't need to text him, he called, valid reason for his silence for the whole 2 days!! ok i realise I was being paranoid!!!! Seeing him on saturday... YAY... thanks for advice