How to meet [kiss meet]?????

Simpley

i agreed a few days ago to meet someone. if your not from dublin you mite not get wat dis is. its a kiss with all tonuge. ive liked dis fella for ages now and he dumped his girlfriend for me recently, he said, becoz i showed dat i liked him. so he asked to meet me but ive never met someone before. how do ya meet someone, basically? like, watcha do with your arms and tongue and all? ive liked dis fella so long dat i dont wanna meet him and hav him just like aww yeah shes not dat great a meet. help plz!

Little_Daisy

Sounds strange but it might help, why not look at some tv programme where kissing occurs? Search on youtube, it might help! I'm not condoning soft porn or anything but looking at two people kissing on a relatively innocent programme might help you understand whose arms go where! Try not to worry though as it usually comes quite naturally, and nobody is an expert at the start!:D

LegacyUser

Em if your calling kissing meeting, your too immature to be kissing anyone....


This guy who just dumped his gf because you showed him that you liked him... What if some other girl shows him she likes him and he just dumps you aswell?

Just wait for someone else, you might regret having your first kiss with some guy who dumps you after a week.

I_am_Jebus

if you have the time watch the movie "Cruel Intentions" - the how to kiss SM Gellar style is provided in a visual sense. (or just look up the scene on youtube.

Let your hands go (and his hands go) where ever you(s) are most comfortable with and depending on where you are at the time.

Don't concentrate too much on the moment, just get lost in it because you will tense up if you keep thinking "am I doing this right, is this the way to do it" etc... the first kiss is a moment to be enjoyed and remembered (for good reasons). Its not that hard anyway and should become natural very quickly...

LegacyUser

Em? wrote: »

Em if your calling kissing meeting, your too immature to be kissing anyone....

there are people in my school that were in like 5th year sayin stuff like are you gonna meet him. Meetin is what people [in the part of dublin im in anyway] call kissing when you havent gone out with someone or anything. Its the type of kiss yid do at Spins discos and AFL and all.

Phlann

Em? wrote: »

Em if your calling kissing meeting, your too immature to be kissing anyone....


This guy who just dumped his gf because you showed him that you liked him... What if some other girl shows him she likes him and he just dumps you aswell?

Just wait for someone else, you might regret having your first kiss with some guy who dumps you after a week.

Jaysus, taking it all a bit seriously, aintcha? The girl sounds about 13 or 14... 'Meeting' and going out with people for less than a week is what most of us were up to at that age! She's not about to get her heart broken over a snog.



Dont worry about it kiddo. This guy of yours sounds like second year's answer to Casanova so just follow his lead, do what he does, and it'll come naturally. Everybody worries themselves into a state before their first kiss but we all survive it.

Zaph

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challengemaster

You're like....12 or something, right?

Stop worring about something so small! Go have fun...Jeez, kids these days.

LegacyUser

Em? wrote: »

Em if your calling kissing meeting, your too immature to be kissing anyone....


This guy who just dumped his gf because you showed him that you liked him... What if some other girl shows him she likes him and he just dumps you aswell?

Just wait for someone else, you might regret having your first kiss with some guy who dumps you after a week.

every1 calls meetin kissin in ireland its handy cuz u can talk to ur friends wivout little people or adults hearing u so amm shes not imature

im a fridget 2 ( havent meet any1 ) and im the last of a few in my year im goin into 2nd year btwz so i cant giv u much help sorry but try and look on u tube, try writin in how to french kiss as the dont call it meet anywhere sept for ireland as far as i no also talk to your friends who have meet people ammm i cant think of any more advice sorz

~me~

just follow what he does! if you over think it all now you wont enjoy it! you'll always remember your first kiss so dont get too caught up worrying, it'll be over before you know it! just dont expect him to be the love of your life or anything! good luck and congrats on getting to meet the guy you fancied for so long!

Jazzy

dont use too much tongue and dont do the 'washing machine' which is basically swirling ur tongue around like a mad yolk. just relax and ull be ok. just put ur arms around his or on his shoulders. dont think about it too much, then ur bound to f**k it up

willy wonka

Jazzy wrote: »

dont use too much tongue and dont do the 'washing machine' which is basically swirling ur tongue around like a mad yolk.

My first kiss was like this. It was awful. The guy was such a horrible kisser. All I could hear in my ears was what sounded like a dog lapping a bowl of water. :eek:

LegacyUser

Hi im from Tipperary and i know how u feel.. In ireland we do this thing called *Meeting*
You basically put you arms around your neck.. *they put theres around your hips* and put your head to the right.. Its an open mouth kiss and then just gradually put your tongue in and out of there mouth

The Recliner

Emmzarooney wrote: »

Hi im from Tipperary and i know how u feel.. In ireland we do this thing called *Meeting*
You basically put you arms around your neck.. *they put theres around your hips* and put your head to the right.. Its an open mouth kiss and then just gradually put your tongue in and out of there mouth

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